Sabrina Zohar

And I know so many of you guys have experienced that in dating, but we have to also peel back the layers and say, but does that hold any weight?

And I know so many of you guys have experienced that in dating, but we have to also peel back the layers and say, but does that hold any weight?

And I know so many of you guys have experienced that in dating, but we have to also peel back the layers and say, but does that hold any weight?

It's so normal. And I think we, I'm glad we're humanizing this because we often think, oh, I'm just anxious in relationships. I hear that all the time. I'm like, no, no, no, I'm fine with my friends. I'm fine in my job. I'm fine with everything else. It's just in dating. And I used to think the same. I thought, okay, well, once I get my partner, I'll be okay. And then all this will go away.

It's so normal. And I think we, I'm glad we're humanizing this because we often think, oh, I'm just anxious in relationships. I hear that all the time. I'm like, no, no, no, I'm fine with my friends. I'm fine in my job. I'm fine with everything else. It's just in dating. And I used to think the same. I thought, okay, well, once I get my partner, I'll be okay. And then all this will go away.

It's so normal. And I think we, I'm glad we're humanizing this because we often think, oh, I'm just anxious in relationships. I hear that all the time. I'm like, no, no, no, I'm fine with my friends. I'm fine in my job. I'm fine with everything else. It's just in dating. And I used to think the same. I thought, okay, well, once I get my partner, I'll be okay. And then all this will go away.

But it doesn't because those are core root and like those are my core beliefs. At my core, there's a little girl, right, that learned at a very young age, you're too much. Nobody's here to listen to you. Like my father was just in town and in the middle of a sentence, he literally just turned his back on me and just flippantly just stopped listening. And I was like –

But it doesn't because those are core root and like those are my core beliefs. At my core, there's a little girl, right, that learned at a very young age, you're too much. Nobody's here to listen to you. Like my father was just in town and in the middle of a sentence, he literally just turned his back on me and just flippantly just stopped listening. And I was like –

But it doesn't because those are core root and like those are my core beliefs. At my core, there's a little girl, right, that learned at a very young age, you're too much. Nobody's here to listen to you. Like my father was just in town and in the middle of a sentence, he literally just turned his back on me and just flippantly just stopped listening. And I was like –

And that was the messaging I received. And so when I started to show up and it's same with dating, like let's peel it back a couple of years ago when I first really started to put myself out there, I was terrified of telling a guy, hey, I'd like a relationship. I'm not into casual because I was scared he was going to reject me and say, you're too much. Ew. Wow. Way to be clingy and needy.

And that was the messaging I received. And so when I started to show up and it's same with dating, like let's peel it back a couple of years ago when I first really started to put myself out there, I was terrified of telling a guy, hey, I'd like a relationship. I'm not into casual because I was scared he was going to reject me and say, you're too much. Ew. Wow. Way to be clingy and needy.

And that was the messaging I received. And so when I started to show up and it's same with dating, like let's peel it back a couple of years ago when I first really started to put myself out there, I was terrified of telling a guy, hey, I'd like a relationship. I'm not into casual because I was scared he was going to reject me and say, you're too much. Ew. Wow. Way to be clingy and needy.

And that was my fear of being reaffirmed that my father was saying that to me. And so I figured, okay, let me be perfect. Let me just be the cool girl. Let me show up how they want. And I completely self-abandoned because I was so scared of them rejecting me that I was rejecting myself. I was so scared of them not choosing me that I wasn't choosing myself.

And that was my fear of being reaffirmed that my father was saying that to me. And so I figured, okay, let me be perfect. Let me just be the cool girl. Let me show up how they want. And I completely self-abandoned because I was so scared of them rejecting me that I was rejecting myself. I was so scared of them not choosing me that I wasn't choosing myself.

And that was my fear of being reaffirmed that my father was saying that to me. And so I figured, okay, let me be perfect. Let me just be the cool girl. Let me show up how they want. And I completely self-abandoned because I was so scared of them rejecting me that I was rejecting myself. I was so scared of them not choosing me that I wasn't choosing myself.

Because now, right, every day when I post a video, I am beholden to every fucking piece of shit on the internet that decides that they don't like what I have to say and that they hate my face and they hate my voice. And I trigger them and I should kill myself. I get some of the most disgusting comments.

Because now, right, every day when I post a video, I am beholden to every fucking piece of shit on the internet that decides that they don't like what I have to say and that they hate my face and they hate my voice. And I trigger them and I should kill myself. I get some of the most disgusting comments.

Because now, right, every day when I post a video, I am beholden to every fucking piece of shit on the internet that decides that they don't like what I have to say and that they hate my face and they hate my voice. And I trigger them and I should kill myself. I get some of the most disgusting comments.

But what I also know is that on the other side of it, there are 20,000 million more people that are resonating and feel it and love it. And the reason I bring that up is because you might go on a date and that woman might reject you. She's not your fucking person. Anybody that is going to reject you, right? What does rejection mean? Being ridiculed for who you are.

But what I also know is that on the other side of it, there are 20,000 million more people that are resonating and feel it and love it. And the reason I bring that up is because you might go on a date and that woman might reject you. She's not your fucking person. Anybody that is going to reject you, right? What does rejection mean? Being ridiculed for who you are.