Sabrina Zohar

Okay, I'm 5'8", so I'm a heightist. I'm the same. My partner's 6'5". So to me, I'm like, I think we're allowed to have some aspects of, like my partner, he says, he's like, I can't date a girl shorter than 5'8", because he's like, and then it feels very uncomfortable. My back hurts. I feel like it's my child. I don't really like that. So I think there is a level of like an 80-20 rule.

Okay, I'm 5'8", so I'm a heightist. I'm the same. My partner's 6'5". So to me, I'm like, I think we're allowed to have some aspects of, like my partner, he says, he's like, I can't date a girl shorter than 5'8", because he's like, and then it feels very uncomfortable. My back hurts. I feel like it's my child. I don't really like that. So I think there is a level of like an 80-20 rule.

Okay, I'm 5'8", so I'm a heightist. I'm the same. My partner's 6'5". So to me, I'm like, I think we're allowed to have some aspects of, like my partner, he says, he's like, I can't date a girl shorter than 5'8", because he's like, and then it feels very uncomfortable. My back hurts. I feel like it's my child. I don't really like that. So I think there is a level of like an 80-20 rule.

What does the height represent, right? Is it security, safety? We have to look at that as what am I putting on the height as what does that mean to me? For me personally, it's because I wear heels. I don't want to be shorter than my partner all the time. And it made me feel better knowing that I have a bigger person than me. That was more attractive to me personally. But that's a me thing.

What's 80% that you need? So if you're saying, hey, height is really important. I'm 5'8". I wear heels all the time. I don't like my partner being shorter. You're allowed to have a need. You're allowed to say that's something that's important to me. But that's where we have to look. And like, to your point,

What's 80% that you need? So if you're saying, hey, height is really important. I'm 5'8". I wear heels all the time. I don't like my partner being shorter. You're allowed to have a need. You're allowed to say that's something that's important to me. But that's where we have to look. And like, to your point,

What's 80% that you need? So if you're saying, hey, height is really important. I'm 5'8". I wear heels all the time. I don't like my partner being shorter. You're allowed to have a need. You're allowed to say that's something that's important to me. But that's where we have to look. And like, to your point,

What's 80% that you need? So if you're saying, hey, height is really important. I'm 5'8". I wear heels all the time. I don't like my partner being shorter. You're allowed to have a need. You're allowed to say that's something that's important to me. But that's where we have to look. And like, to your point,

What's 80% that you need? So if you're saying, hey, height is really important. I'm 5'8". I wear heels all the time. I don't like my partner being shorter. You're allowed to have a need. You're allowed to say that's something that's important to me. But that's where we have to look. And like, to your point,

So I'm curious, Hala, for you, when you hear that,

Am I being so rigid and so everything's giving me an ick that I'm almost pushing people away, right? And so what I would look at is what I personally did was I needed to find whether I was going to say no to someone or yes to someone, two to three reasons as to why I would say yes or no. So if I'm swiping left, if I'm looking and going, I don't like their height,

Am I being so rigid and so everything's giving me an ick that I'm almost pushing people away, right? And so what I would look at is what I personally did was I needed to find whether I was going to say no to someone or yes to someone, two to three reasons as to why I would say yes or no. So if I'm swiping left, if I'm looking and going, I don't like their height,

Am I being so rigid and so everything's giving me an ick that I'm almost pushing people away, right? And so what I would look at is what I personally did was I needed to find whether I was going to say no to someone or yes to someone, two to three reasons as to why I would say yes or no. So if I'm swiping left, if I'm looking and going, I don't like their height,

Am I being so rigid and so everything's giving me an ick that I'm almost pushing people away, right? And so what I would look at is what I personally did was I needed to find whether I was going to say no to someone or yes to someone, two to three reasons as to why I would say yes or no. So if I'm swiping left, if I'm looking and going, I don't like their height,

Am I being so rigid and so everything's giving me an ick that I'm almost pushing people away, right? And so what I would look at is what I personally did was I needed to find whether I was going to say no to someone or yes to someone, two to three reasons as to why I would say yes or no. So if I'm swiping left, if I'm looking and going, I don't like their height,

Here's the thing, the beauty of the awareness that you have of, okay, that's something that I do. That way, when you're on the apps, if you're going to say no to someone and you're like, wait, Hala, you're only doing this because he's short. He's really attractive. He's cool. I like a lot about him.

But if that's it, I'll go, okay, that's not enough of a reason. Fine, I'll give this person a try. But if I say, oh, vice versa, ooh, I want to match with this person. They're 6'4". Is there any other reason I want to match with them? No, their prompts are stupid. Their photos look really lame. Okay, so then what am I matching with this person for?

But if that's it, I'll go, okay, that's not enough of a reason. Fine, I'll give this person a try. But if I say, oh, vice versa, ooh, I want to match with this person. They're 6'4". Is there any other reason I want to match with them? No, their prompts are stupid. Their photos look really lame. Okay, so then what am I matching with this person for?

But if that's it, I'll go, okay, that's not enough of a reason. Fine, I'll give this person a try. But if I say, oh, vice versa, ooh, I want to match with this person. They're 6'4". Is there any other reason I want to match with them? No, their prompts are stupid. Their photos look really lame. Okay, so then what am I matching with this person for?

But if that's it, I'll go, okay, that's not enough of a reason. Fine, I'll give this person a try. But if I say, oh, vice versa, ooh, I want to match with this person. They're 6'4". Is there any other reason I want to match with them? No, their prompts are stupid. Their photos look really lame. Okay, so then what am I matching with this person for?