Sabrina Zohar

I love a coffee date because what you could say is, hey, I'm about to go run an errand. Why don't you come meet me for 25 minutes? Let's see if we have something here. If we do, then we could go to dinner, right? That's you respecting your time and boundaries and saying, I just want to do a quick vibe check. FaceTime vibe check, right? Let's have a conversation on FaceTime. Wow, you're funny.

I love a coffee date because what you could say is, hey, I'm about to go run an errand. Why don't you come meet me for 25 minutes? Let's see if we have something here. If we do, then we could go to dinner, right? That's you respecting your time and boundaries and saying, I just want to do a quick vibe check. FaceTime vibe check, right? Let's have a conversation on FaceTime. Wow, you're funny.

I love a coffee date because what you could say is, hey, I'm about to go run an errand. Why don't you come meet me for 25 minutes? Let's see if we have something here. If we do, then we could go to dinner, right? That's you respecting your time and boundaries and saying, I just want to do a quick vibe check. FaceTime vibe check, right? Let's have a conversation on FaceTime. Wow, you're funny.

every morning. I can't be out. I don't drink alcohol. I don't want to do that whole thing. So I'm going to do an earlier date. But it's a really great way to see because here's the beauty about what I like about what you're doing is you're setting a boundary saying, hey, I can only go out Friday. Somebody that respects you will say, cool, let me make it happen. Or, hey, Hala, I'm so sorry.

Okay, cool. I'd like to meet you versus, oh, no, thank you. I'm not into this because at the end of the day, you set the boundaries, right? You prioritize how often you spend on work. You prioritize how your friendships are. It's just another priority. And if you're telling me, well, I don't prioritize that, it's like, well, then there you go. You're not ready for a relationship. It's okay.

Okay, cool. I'd like to meet you versus, oh, no, thank you. I'm not into this because at the end of the day, you set the boundaries, right? You prioritize how often you spend on work. You prioritize how your friendships are. It's just another priority. And if you're telling me, well, I don't prioritize that, it's like, well, then there you go. You're not ready for a relationship. It's okay.

Okay, cool. I'd like to meet you versus, oh, no, thank you. I'm not into this because at the end of the day, you set the boundaries, right? You prioritize how often you spend on work. You prioritize how your friendships are. It's just another priority. And if you're telling me, well, I don't prioritize that, it's like, well, then there you go. You're not ready for a relationship. It's okay.

Okay, cool. I'd like to meet you versus, oh, no, thank you. I'm not into this because at the end of the day, you set the boundaries, right? You prioritize how often you spend on work. You prioritize how your friendships are. It's just another priority. And if you're telling me, well, I don't prioritize that, it's like, well, then there you go. You're not ready for a relationship. It's okay.

Okay, cool. I'd like to meet you versus, oh, no, thank you. I'm not into this because at the end of the day, you set the boundaries, right? You prioritize how often you spend on work. You prioritize how your friendships are. It's just another priority. And if you're telling me, well, I don't prioritize that, it's like, well, then there you go. You're not ready for a relationship. It's okay.

Could I do Thursday? Right. You can have a conversation. Versus if you say that and they're like, wow, high maintenance, no thank you, goodbye, right? You get to see when I scratch the surface a little bit and I say no to you, how does that person show up?

Which is fine. Listen, you're allowed to believe anything you want. I will never try to dissuade you. But what I would say is then you're chasing a feeling. You want, I want it to feel sexy. I want it to feel this. But the reality is that is going to fade. That's not going to last forever.

Which is fine. Listen, you're allowed to believe anything you want. I will never try to dissuade you. But what I would say is then you're chasing a feeling. You want, I want it to feel sexy. I want it to feel this. But the reality is that is going to fade. That's not going to last forever.

Which is fine. Listen, you're allowed to believe anything you want. I will never try to dissuade you. But what I would say is then you're chasing a feeling. You want, I want it to feel sexy. I want it to feel this. But the reality is that is going to fade. That's not going to last forever.

Which is fine. Listen, you're allowed to believe anything you want. I will never try to dissuade you. But what I would say is then you're chasing a feeling. You want, I want it to feel sexy. I want it to feel this. But the reality is that is going to fade. That's not going to last forever.

Which is fine. Listen, you're allowed to believe anything you want. I will never try to dissuade you. But what I would say is then you're chasing a feeling. You want, I want it to feel sexy. I want it to feel this. But the reality is that is going to fade. That's not going to last forever.

So what we want to see is if I just show up in a workout outfit looking like this and you and I have a great fucking conversation over coffee, that is more important than I got all dressed up. He took me to this amazing dinner, but then I never heard from him again. because it's performative, right? And so that's why I would say, do what feels comfortable for you.

So what we want to see is if I just show up in a workout outfit looking like this and you and I have a great fucking conversation over coffee, that is more important than I got all dressed up. He took me to this amazing dinner, but then I never heard from him again. because it's performative, right? And so that's why I would say, do what feels comfortable for you.

So what we want to see is if I just show up in a workout outfit looking like this and you and I have a great fucking conversation over coffee, that is more important than I got all dressed up. He took me to this amazing dinner, but then I never heard from him again. because it's performative, right? And so that's why I would say, do what feels comfortable for you.

So what we want to see is if I just show up in a workout outfit looking like this and you and I have a great fucking conversation over coffee, that is more important than I got all dressed up. He took me to this amazing dinner, but then I never heard from him again. because it's performative, right? And so that's why I would say, do what feels comfortable for you.

So what we want to see is if I just show up in a workout outfit looking like this and you and I have a great fucking conversation over coffee, that is more important than I got all dressed up. He took me to this amazing dinner, but then I never heard from him again. because it's performative, right? And so that's why I would say, do what feels comfortable for you.