Sabrina Zohar

Totally. Okay. So my question back would be, and how has that worked?

But for me personally, that was me respecting my time. Hey, I'm going to go walk the dog. Why don't you join me? Because if I can't just go on a walk with you and have a good conversation, then what relationship are you and I going to build? Because if I'm focused on, well, I want to feel the spark and I want to feel this excitement, that's the first thing that's going to go.

But for me personally, that was me respecting my time. Hey, I'm going to go walk the dog. Why don't you join me? Because if I can't just go on a walk with you and have a good conversation, then what relationship are you and I going to build? Because if I'm focused on, well, I want to feel the spark and I want to feel this excitement, that's the first thing that's going to go.

But for me personally, that was me respecting my time. Hey, I'm going to go walk the dog. Why don't you join me? Because if I can't just go on a walk with you and have a good conversation, then what relationship are you and I going to build? Because if I'm focused on, well, I want to feel the spark and I want to feel this excitement, that's the first thing that's going to go.

But for me personally, that was me respecting my time. Hey, I'm going to go walk the dog. Why don't you join me? Because if I can't just go on a walk with you and have a good conversation, then what relationship are you and I going to build? Because if I'm focused on, well, I want to feel the spark and I want to feel this excitement, that's the first thing that's going to go.

But for me personally, that was me respecting my time. Hey, I'm going to go walk the dog. Why don't you join me? Because if I can't just go on a walk with you and have a good conversation, then what relationship are you and I going to build? Because if I'm focused on, well, I want to feel the spark and I want to feel this excitement, that's the first thing that's going to go.

So scientifically, right? This isn't me just making shit up. This is an actual study. If you Google, anybody that wants to Google the spark by Harvard, that's it. It'd come up to 2015.

My friend, Scott, he is a doctor, like a psychologist, and he calls them the trauma tingles because scientifically what they've seen is the spark is just your nervous system giving blood to your, I call them the phalanges, but to your hands and your feet so that you could run. Because there's something that your body is recognizing that feels familiar.

And then all of a sudden we wonder why people go, but in my relationship, I'm bored. Which, Paula, I say this with love, but given what you shared about earlier, that high and low, that's, I think, why. It's because you want to feel that excitement so that it'll keep going, but then you notice how eventually it's going to come down.

And then all of a sudden we wonder why people go, but in my relationship, I'm bored. Which, Paula, I say this with love, but given what you shared about earlier, that high and low, that's, I think, why. It's because you want to feel that excitement so that it'll keep going, but then you notice how eventually it's going to come down.

And then all of a sudden we wonder why people go, but in my relationship, I'm bored. Which, Paula, I say this with love, but given what you shared about earlier, that high and low, that's, I think, why. It's because you want to feel that excitement so that it'll keep going, but then you notice how eventually it's going to come down.

And then all of a sudden we wonder why people go, but in my relationship, I'm bored. Which, Paula, I say this with love, but given what you shared about earlier, that high and low, that's, I think, why. It's because you want to feel that excitement so that it'll keep going, but then you notice how eventually it's going to come down.

And then all of a sudden we wonder why people go, but in my relationship, I'm bored. Which, Paula, I say this with love, but given what you shared about earlier, that high and low, that's, I think, why. It's because you want to feel that excitement so that it'll keep going, but then you notice how eventually it's going to come down.

So you felt the spark with these guys and you look back and you're like, yeah, they were all abusive or whatever, not abusive, but controlling or this or that, right? Whatever, insert this word. Because what ends up happening is, let me ask you this, the spark, right? You feel that. If you weren't attracted to that person, you'd probably be like, I need to get out of here. Something feels off.

And so we want to find a baseline, something that feels just calm and secure. The reason I bring up coffee dates is because of the timing thing. If you were like, oh, I'm not running a business. I got plenty of time. I got all these nights I could go out to dinner. Great. Do what feels comfortable.

And so we want to find a baseline, something that feels just calm and secure. The reason I bring up coffee dates is because of the timing thing. If you were like, oh, I'm not running a business. I got plenty of time. I got all these nights I could go out to dinner. Great. Do what feels comfortable.

And so we want to find a baseline, something that feels just calm and secure. The reason I bring up coffee dates is because of the timing thing. If you were like, oh, I'm not running a business. I got plenty of time. I got all these nights I could go out to dinner. Great. Do what feels comfortable.

And so we want to find a baseline, something that feels just calm and secure. The reason I bring up coffee dates is because of the timing thing. If you were like, oh, I'm not running a business. I got plenty of time. I got all these nights I could go out to dinner. Great. Do what feels comfortable.

And so we want to find a baseline, something that feels just calm and secure. The reason I bring up coffee dates is because of the timing thing. If you were like, oh, I'm not running a business. I got plenty of time. I got all these nights I could go out to dinner. Great. Do what feels comfortable.

But then we hear the, well, I got ready and I did my makeup and my hair and this person never called me back. It's like, because no one owes you anything. And so that's me respecting my time and my boundaries saying, you don't owe me anything and I don't owe you anything. Let's meet at Erewhon for 30 minutes. Let's have a quick jive. If we get it, great. I'd love to go to dinner with you.