Sabrina Zohar

Have they moved on? Do they process? How do they speak about them? Another question I love to ask is, how do you normally handle disagreements or arguments? Are you the type that likes to talk or are you somebody that needs space, right? That'll give me an understanding of how do they handle conflict and resolution. Where do you see yourself in five years?

In a perfect world, how would you like this to play out, right? Just to understand if they're like, oh, I'm living here and I'm doing this. And you're like, oh, I don't want to do that. I want to live in the country with 10 kids. Like this doesn't align with me. Just asking things that are important to you. Like, what matters to me is I want to see how emotionally available you are.

I want to see how emotionally intelligent you are. I'm not going to talk about my family probably on the first date because I don't think it's appropriate to trauma dump. So I'm not going to ask you besides anything of like, so tell me about your relationship with your parents. Are you guys close? And if someone says, no, not really. Okay, cool.

Well, hey, I'd love to learn more about that as I get to know you further.

When we look at red flags, all red flags are is a pattern of behavior that could indicate turmoil in a relationship. We hear this all the time. Oh, that's a red flag. And you're like, what's a red flag about it? How is that an indication that there's a problem in the relationship? What's a red flag? Someone dismissing me? Someone discrediting me? A red flag, all my exes are crazy.

Oh, you don't take accountability. Got it. Right? Those are red flags. They're like somebody that their words and actions aren't aligning. Look, those are true red flags. Then we go onto the green flags. Green flags could be something so minute as they said they were gonna call and they called. They took me to their favorite restaurant and introduced me to the staff.

That's a great, wow, they are trying to bring me part of their life. We have to look at green flags are what are things that make me say, hey, this feels safe, secure, and good to me. They're consistent. Consistency means their words and actions align. They're reliable. When they say they're going to do something, they do it, or they communicate that they can't do it.

A green flag that often people is actually a red flag is like when people say, oh, well, they text me every day. That's not actually good. I don't want someone that's constantly texting me. Good morning. How are you? I don't know you, dude. I spent two hours with you. Why are you saying good morning to me? Who are you?

That's where we have to start to look and differentiate because green flags, I like to look at it as a glimmer to your nervous system. What that means is it's, yay, this makes me feel good and safe versus a red flag is more of a trigger to your nervous system. Ooh, I don't like that. That doesn't make me feel safe. This isn't a good look.

I just did a video recently of like, instead of ghosting, say this, went mega viral, like 11 million. I got thousands of comments polarizing. One being like, yes, thank you. This is it, maturity. Yes, please be honest. And then the other side of the internet, I'd rather get ghosted. Ghosting's easier. I don't owe anybody anything, right? So we look at the emotional maturity, but...

I just did a video recently of like, instead of ghosting, say this, went mega viral, like 11 million. I got thousands of comments polarizing. One being like, yes, thank you. This is it, maturity. Yes, please be honest. And then the other side of the internet, I'd rather get ghosted. Ghosting's easier. I don't owe anybody anything, right? So we look at the emotional maturity, but...

I just did a video recently of like, instead of ghosting, say this, went mega viral, like 11 million. I got thousands of comments polarizing. One being like, yes, thank you. This is it, maturity. Yes, please be honest. And then the other side of the internet, I'd rather get ghosted. Ghosting's easier. I don't owe anybody anything, right? So we look at the emotional maturity, but...

I just did a video recently of like, instead of ghosting, say this, went mega viral, like 11 million. I got thousands of comments polarizing. One being like, yes, thank you. This is it, maturity. Yes, please be honest. And then the other side of the internet, I'd rather get ghosted. Ghosting's easier. I don't owe anybody anything, right? So we look at the emotional maturity, but...

I just did a video recently of like, instead of ghosting, say this, went mega viral, like 11 million. I got thousands of comments polarizing. One being like, yes, thank you. This is it, maturity. Yes, please be honest. And then the other side of the internet, I'd rather get ghosted. Ghosting's easier. I don't owe anybody anything, right? So we look at the emotional maturity, but...

That's what we want to look at is when someone tells you something or acts, how does it make you feel? That's how you'll be able to differentiate between, is this a red flag for me or a green flag?

Off the bat, let's talk about what ghosting is. By definition, ghosting means an abrupt ending in a relationship. That's the key word here. So that means we have had to build some kind of rapport. To me, the I haven't answered on an app, that's not ghosting to me. You don't know who this person is. You have never met this person. You don't owe these people anything.

Off the bat, let's talk about what ghosting is. By definition, ghosting means an abrupt ending in a relationship. That's the key word here. So that means we have had to build some kind of rapport. To me, the I haven't answered on an app, that's not ghosting to me. You don't know who this person is. You have never met this person. You don't owe these people anything.

Off the bat, let's talk about what ghosting is. By definition, ghosting means an abrupt ending in a relationship. That's the key word here. So that means we have had to build some kind of rapport. To me, the I haven't answered on an app, that's not ghosting to me. You don't know who this person is. You have never met this person. You don't owe these people anything.

Off the bat, let's talk about what ghosting is. By definition, ghosting means an abrupt ending in a relationship. That's the key word here. So that means we have had to build some kind of rapport. To me, the I haven't answered on an app, that's not ghosting to me. You don't know who this person is. You have never met this person. You don't owe these people anything.

Off the bat, let's talk about what ghosting is. By definition, ghosting means an abrupt ending in a relationship. That's the key word here. So that means we have had to build some kind of rapport. To me, the I haven't answered on an app, that's not ghosting to me. You don't know who this person is. You have never met this person. You don't owe these people anything.