Sabrina Zohar

Is there an end game?

Like, do we have snacks on the way?

Like, where are we going?

Because there is no end game.

And so I need clarity, not the fluidity.

Because when people say they're going with the flow, what they're really saying is like, I'm not going to commit.

That's projection because then what's happening is we're putting our core beliefs.

What we have to look and say is maybe they found a partner that was better suited for them.

Maybe that person didn't trigger their nervous system.

Maybe that person was a safer experience.

Maybe you were really like their dad growing up and that just made them and rubbed them the wrong way.

Maybe you guys had completely opposing political beliefs.

What we have to do is we have to look and say, what are the facts?

Because if I say I wasn't enough, I'm not good enough, I could all but guarantee if I talk to the other person, they would say, oh, this has nothing to do with that.

It's X, Y, and Z. So what I do is, what are the facts to back this thought up?

And if I don't have any, okay, then where did I learn this from?

Because if it's my insecurity, that's what's really coming up.

It has nothing to do with them.

Nothing changed.

Nothing changed.