Sabrina Zohar

But the choices we make are what's going to change that.

And you can either have the life you want or you can live the life you have.

You get to choose.

And it is a choice.

It's the same with I can't move on from them.

I, they're the love of my life.

I don't know how.

No, you're choosing to stay stuck.

Own that.

And then you can do, because when you take radical accountability of your life, and I had to do that.

Now, I'm not saying you take accountability of everything that happens in your life, right?

If someone treats you poorly, it's not about, oh, there's something wrong with me, but it's about saying, but what did I allow?

Because you start to look, I want you to look at anybody that's listening, look at your friends, look at your family, look at your partners, look at everyone in your life.

And if you don't like any of them,

That starts and stops with you because you're allowing them in your life.

They didn't force their way in there.

And now you get to choose who stays.

The thing about romantic fiction, I would say, more than any other genre of culture, is that it's always put women first.

My marriage stopped making sense.

The connection started to feel off.