Sabrina Zohar

Same, right person, wrong time.

Because what happens is when you chalk people up to 140 characters or less, you just slap a bumper sticker and call it a day.

But we are such nuanced creatures.

We are so complex.

We can't be chalked up to just a saying because then that's insinuating all of us are the same.

And I'm fairly certain a lot of us are different.

And so I think what makes somebody that they're right, if I had met Ryan when his sister passed, we would never have been together.

Now, that doesn't mean that in the past, like I'm sure you and I have gone on probably dates that are not your wife, not your partner.

They're like, man, that was amazing.

That doesn't discredit the connection that you have.

And that doesn't mean that your partner is not.

It's a different connection.

And we have to be okay to know that.

You're right.

If this person's not for me, and not to mention, what makes us want them even more is that usually they don't want us because that is going to go into, I have to prove it.

Let me earn it.

I can get them.

And we go right back into the wounds instead of saying, thank you so much.

I'm going to move on with my life.

When I did, I held on to a guy.