Sabrina Zohar

I've dated guys that are 5'8", and they're fantastic. There were other reasons it didn't work out. And so I think when it comes to apps, it's natural that it's going to be. The average person makes their decision within four seconds of an app. You have all but seconds to decide if you want to see somebody. But I'd argue to say similar in person, right? I've dated in New York where I'd go to a bar.

I've dated guys that are 5'8", and they're fantastic. There were other reasons it didn't work out. And so I think when it comes to apps, it's natural that it's going to be. The average person makes their decision within four seconds of an app. You have all but seconds to decide if you want to see somebody. But I'd argue to say similar in person, right? I've dated in New York where I'd go to a bar.

Not a fan of lists because then that's rigidity. What I would suggest, because a lot of people, my brother's whole thing has always been burn your fucking checklist. He's like, it's not getting you anywhere. What I would suggest is focus on how do I want to feel when I'm with this person? For instance, I want to feel seen, heard, and understood. What's that going to mean, right?

Not a fan of lists because then that's rigidity. What I would suggest, because a lot of people, my brother's whole thing has always been burn your fucking checklist. He's like, it's not getting you anywhere. What I would suggest is focus on how do I want to feel when I'm with this person? For instance, I want to feel seen, heard, and understood. What's that going to mean, right?

Not a fan of lists because then that's rigidity. What I would suggest, because a lot of people, my brother's whole thing has always been burn your fucking checklist. He's like, it's not getting you anywhere. What I would suggest is focus on how do I want to feel when I'm with this person? For instance, I want to feel seen, heard, and understood. What's that going to mean, right?

Not a fan of lists because then that's rigidity. What I would suggest, because a lot of people, my brother's whole thing has always been burn your fucking checklist. He's like, it's not getting you anywhere. What I would suggest is focus on how do I want to feel when I'm with this person? For instance, I want to feel seen, heard, and understood. What's that going to mean, right?

Not a fan of lists because then that's rigidity. What I would suggest, because a lot of people, my brother's whole thing has always been burn your fucking checklist. He's like, it's not getting you anywhere. What I would suggest is focus on how do I want to feel when I'm with this person? For instance, I want to feel seen, heard, and understood. What's that going to mean, right?

If I look and go, oh, I'm not attracted, I walk off. If this guy tries to talk to me, no, thank you. I don't want it. So I think there is an element of reality that, yes, of course, are there vibe checks? Like my partner's not my type. Not that he's not attractive. He's just not the same guy I always went for. That's why I chose him because I said, oh, what am I saying no to?

If I look and go, oh, I'm not attracted, I walk off. If this guy tries to talk to me, no, thank you. I don't want it. So I think there is an element of reality that, yes, of course, are there vibe checks? Like my partner's not my type. Not that he's not attractive. He's just not the same guy I always went for. That's why I chose him because I said, oh, what am I saying no to?

If I look and go, oh, I'm not attracted, I walk off. If this guy tries to talk to me, no, thank you. I don't want it. So I think there is an element of reality that, yes, of course, are there vibe checks? Like my partner's not my type. Not that he's not attractive. He's just not the same guy I always went for. That's why I chose him because I said, oh, what am I saying no to?

If I look and go, oh, I'm not attracted, I walk off. If this guy tries to talk to me, no, thank you. I don't want it. So I think there is an element of reality that, yes, of course, are there vibe checks? Like my partner's not my type. Not that he's not attractive. He's just not the same guy I always went for. That's why I chose him because I said, oh, what am I saying no to?

If I look and go, oh, I'm not attracted, I walk off. If this guy tries to talk to me, no, thank you. I don't want it. So I think there is an element of reality that, yes, of course, are there vibe checks? Like my partner's not my type. Not that he's not attractive. He's just not the same guy I always went for. That's why I chose him because I said, oh, what am I saying no to?

If I want to feel that with someone, wow, that feels so secure. So what I'm looking for is someone that's compassionate because for me to feel seen, heard, and understood, I need compassion and empathy. I need someone that loves acts of service. So that's what I would look at is how I want to feel. Because you could meet someone and go, they check all my boxes, right?

If I want to feel that with someone, wow, that feels so secure. So what I'm looking for is someone that's compassionate because for me to feel seen, heard, and understood, I need compassion and empathy. I need someone that loves acts of service. So that's what I would look at is how I want to feel. Because you could meet someone and go, they check all my boxes, right?

If I want to feel that with someone, wow, that feels so secure. So what I'm looking for is someone that's compassionate because for me to feel seen, heard, and understood, I need compassion and empathy. I need someone that loves acts of service. So that's what I would look at is how I want to feel. Because you could meet someone and go, they check all my boxes, right?

If I want to feel that with someone, wow, that feels so secure. So what I'm looking for is someone that's compassionate because for me to feel seen, heard, and understood, I need compassion and empathy. I need someone that loves acts of service. So that's what I would look at is how I want to feel. Because you could meet someone and go, they check all my boxes, right?

If I want to feel that with someone, wow, that feels so secure. So what I'm looking for is someone that's compassionate because for me to feel seen, heard, and understood, I need compassion and empathy. I need someone that loves acts of service. So that's what I would look at is how I want to feel. Because you could meet someone and go, they check all my boxes, right?

I said, oh, just because he's not my type, that's not enough of a reason for me to say no to this person. So I matched with him. And like, here's the thing. If you're unsure, do a FaceTime vibe check. Right, if you're like, oh, he's a little short, but maybe he has a great personality, I'll do a FaceTime with him before I go out with him.

I said, oh, just because he's not my type, that's not enough of a reason for me to say no to this person. So I matched with him. And like, here's the thing. If you're unsure, do a FaceTime vibe check. Right, if you're like, oh, he's a little short, but maybe he has a great personality, I'll do a FaceTime with him before I go out with him.

I said, oh, just because he's not my type, that's not enough of a reason for me to say no to this person. So I matched with him. And like, here's the thing. If you're unsure, do a FaceTime vibe check. Right, if you're like, oh, he's a little short, but maybe he has a great personality, I'll do a FaceTime with him before I go out with him.