Sabrina Zohar

No, no.

Let me tell you why.

The reason I think it'll happen, it's not when it happens when you least expect it.

It happens when you release control to the outcome and you surrender.

That's when I believe it will.

When you least expect it is kind of saying, oh, I was at the grocery store and there they were.

I don't think it's that accidental.

But I do believe that when you release control to the outcome and you show up saying, well, if this works out, colon, if not, not, you have a higher propensity for it to work out because you're not trying to make something it's not.

And that's, to me, the biggest difference.

When I see people, one person that's moved on after a breakup and the other one's stuck on it, it's because the person that's moved on has acknowledged what it was.

And they're not trying to create something it wasn't versus the other person that's holding onto this fantasy and narrative that very clearly didn't exist.

So I think...

There's nuance to it, but I do believe that when you release control and say, hey, if I'm going to go out and if it doesn't work out, that's okay.

That more than when you least expect it, because then that means you're not being intentional and you're not putting in the energy.

especially when you go out, like I remember my days, you go out to a bar, club, what am I, 20?

You go out to something and you're, the whole place, you're turning every stone.

Are they single?

Are they single?

Are they single?

That's the pressure that we gotta release.