Sabrina Zohar
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And we ended up hooking up. And fast forward, here we are. We went to dinner after. I never have felt the spark with him because my nervous system has always felt very safe with him because he's not inconsistent. He's not doing any of those things. He's being very upfront, consistent, safe, reciprocal. He communicates. And that's different for me. And the thing is, the spark often is familiarity.
And we ended up hooking up. And fast forward, here we are. We went to dinner after. I never have felt the spark with him because my nervous system has always felt very safe with him because he's not inconsistent. He's not doing any of those things. He's being very upfront, consistent, safe, reciprocal. He communicates. And that's different for me. And the thing is, the spark often is familiarity.
One, take a break. You have every right to say, I don't want a date right now. I need to take a minute. I'm exhausted, right? Take some time. But on top of that, so then we start to go in and say, let's start to talk about what's causing the burnout. Is it that I say I'm going on a thousand dates and I'm not getting second dates?
One, take a break. You have every right to say, I don't want a date right now. I need to take a minute. I'm exhausted, right? Take some time. But on top of that, so then we start to go in and say, let's start to talk about what's causing the burnout. Is it that I say I'm going on a thousand dates and I'm not getting second dates?
One, take a break. You have every right to say, I don't want a date right now. I need to take a minute. I'm exhausted, right? Take some time. But on top of that, so then we start to go in and say, let's start to talk about what's causing the burnout. Is it that I say I'm going on a thousand dates and I'm not getting second dates?
One, take a break. You have every right to say, I don't want a date right now. I need to take a minute. I'm exhausted, right? Take some time. But on top of that, so then we start to go in and say, let's start to talk about what's causing the burnout. Is it that I say I'm going on a thousand dates and I'm not getting second dates?
One, take a break. You have every right to say, I don't want a date right now. I need to take a minute. I'm exhausted, right? Take some time. But on top of that, so then we start to go in and say, let's start to talk about what's causing the burnout. Is it that I say I'm going on a thousand dates and I'm not getting second dates?
Notice how you went after all these men. And what did you say earlier? They reminded me of my dad. Because that's what the spark leads us to is that people that feel familiar that are often end up usually hurting us because we're chasing a feeling. And when that feeling fades, what do you have left?
Notice how you went after all these men. And what did you say earlier? They reminded me of my dad. Because that's what the spark leads us to is that people that feel familiar that are often end up usually hurting us because we're chasing a feeling. And when that feeling fades, what do you have left?
Notice how you went after all these men. And what did you say earlier? They reminded me of my dad. Because that's what the spark leads us to is that people that feel familiar that are often end up usually hurting us because we're chasing a feeling. And when that feeling fades, what do you have left?
Notice how you went after all these men. And what did you say earlier? They reminded me of my dad. Because that's what the spark leads us to is that people that feel familiar that are often end up usually hurting us because we're chasing a feeling. And when that feeling fades, what do you have left?
Notice how you went after all these men. And what did you say earlier? They reminded me of my dad. Because that's what the spark leads us to is that people that feel familiar that are often end up usually hurting us because we're chasing a feeling. And when that feeling fades, what do you have left?
Okay, I need to become a better buyer then because I'm going on way too many first dates and not really vetting these people well. we kind of have to understand where the burnout really lies. So if it's that, if it's I'm just tired of the apps and feeling disappointed, okay, you know what? Let me use them passively.
Okay, I need to become a better buyer then because I'm going on way too many first dates and not really vetting these people well. we kind of have to understand where the burnout really lies. So if it's that, if it's I'm just tired of the apps and feeling disappointed, okay, you know what? Let me use them passively.
Okay, I need to become a better buyer then because I'm going on way too many first dates and not really vetting these people well. we kind of have to understand where the burnout really lies. So if it's that, if it's I'm just tired of the apps and feeling disappointed, okay, you know what? Let me use them passively.
Okay, I need to become a better buyer then because I'm going on way too many first dates and not really vetting these people well. we kind of have to understand where the burnout really lies. So if it's that, if it's I'm just tired of the apps and feeling disappointed, okay, you know what? Let me use them passively.
Okay, I need to become a better buyer then because I'm going on way too many first dates and not really vetting these people well. we kind of have to understand where the burnout really lies. So if it's that, if it's I'm just tired of the apps and feeling disappointed, okay, you know what? Let me use them passively.
Let me see who tries to match with me, and then I will decide if I want to match with them. That way, I don't feel like I'm being rejected as hard. That's where I kind of go and say, start to get curious about what's the narrative that's being associated with the burnout. Is it that I don't feel like anyone's ever gonna like me? Nobody, oh God, everybody good is taken.
Let me see who tries to match with me, and then I will decide if I want to match with them. That way, I don't feel like I'm being rejected as hard. That's where I kind of go and say, start to get curious about what's the narrative that's being associated with the burnout. Is it that I don't feel like anyone's ever gonna like me? Nobody, oh God, everybody good is taken.
Let me see who tries to match with me, and then I will decide if I want to match with them. That way, I don't feel like I'm being rejected as hard. That's where I kind of go and say, start to get curious about what's the narrative that's being associated with the burnout. Is it that I don't feel like anyone's ever gonna like me? Nobody, oh God, everybody good is taken.