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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

You're going to have to go home. And I was suicidal. I went home and I remember just like I was it. I was like, OK, how am I going to do this? Like I was it was a dark place. And then fast forward two months later, my dog passes away. I'm dating this guy that was just not there for me. And that was my rock bottom.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

You're going to have to go home. And I was suicidal. I went home and I remember just like I was it. I was like, OK, how am I going to do this? Like I was it was a dark place. And then fast forward two months later, my dog passes away. I'm dating this guy that was just not there for me. And that was my rock bottom.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

You're going to have to go home. And I was suicidal. I went home and I remember just like I was it. I was like, OK, how am I going to do this? Like I was it was a dark place. And then fast forward two months later, my dog passes away. I'm dating this guy that was just not there for me. And that was my rock bottom.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

And I remember just thinking one of my friends text me and said, hey, man, why don't you just start a tick tock? And I was like, I had my own limiting beliefs. I was like, nobody cares about what I have to say. No one likes me. Who's going to listen to me? And she was like, well, I do. And I was like, OK, you know what? I'll try it.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

And I remember just thinking one of my friends text me and said, hey, man, why don't you just start a tick tock? And I was like, I had my own limiting beliefs. I was like, nobody cares about what I have to say. No one likes me. Who's going to listen to me? And she was like, well, I do. And I was like, OK, you know what? I'll try it.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

And I remember just thinking one of my friends text me and said, hey, man, why don't you just start a tick tock? And I was like, I had my own limiting beliefs. I was like, nobody cares about what I have to say. No one likes me. Who's going to listen to me? And she was like, well, I do. And I was like, OK, you know what? I'll try it.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

And one video turned into two turned into just consistently showing up. Then I met my now partner. We slept together on the first date and I left going, I might never see this guy again because I really was like I had nothing else to lose. And I figured like, you know what? I'm not going to hold on to the outcome because every time I try to plan something, you know, as I say, you make plans.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

And one video turned into two turned into just consistently showing up. Then I met my now partner. We slept together on the first date and I left going, I might never see this guy again because I really was like I had nothing else to lose. And I figured like, you know what? I'm not going to hold on to the outcome because every time I try to plan something, you know, as I say, you make plans.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

And one video turned into two turned into just consistently showing up. Then I met my now partner. We slept together on the first date and I left going, I might never see this guy again because I really was like I had nothing else to lose. And I figured like, you know what? I'm not going to hold on to the outcome because every time I try to plan something, you know, as I say, you make plans.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

God laughs. And I just became very clear that the more I try to control other people in the outcome, the more disconnected I am for myself. And in that moment, it's like for anybody listening, I think when we get to those rock bottoms, we really think like this is it.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

God laughs. And I just became very clear that the more I try to control other people in the outcome, the more disconnected I am for myself. And in that moment, it's like for anybody listening, I think when we get to those rock bottoms, we really think like this is it.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

God laughs. And I just became very clear that the more I try to control other people in the outcome, the more disconnected I am for myself. And in that moment, it's like for anybody listening, I think when we get to those rock bottoms, we really think like this is it.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

But it's actually you could become a phoenix rising from the ashes in that moment because you get to rebuild the version of who you'd like to be and say, I'm done accepting bullshit. I'm done dealing with if this is men that are listening, women that are taking advantage or men or they that are treating me like shit, putting me down. This is this is going to be the last time.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

But it's actually you could become a phoenix rising from the ashes in that moment because you get to rebuild the version of who you'd like to be and say, I'm done accepting bullshit. I'm done dealing with if this is men that are listening, women that are taking advantage or men or they that are treating me like shit, putting me down. This is this is going to be the last time.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

But it's actually you could become a phoenix rising from the ashes in that moment because you get to rebuild the version of who you'd like to be and say, I'm done accepting bullshit. I'm done dealing with if this is men that are listening, women that are taking advantage or men or they that are treating me like shit, putting me down. This is this is going to be the last time.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

And my mama always used to say, I want you to remember this moment right now so that you can remember how far you've come in six months when you look back. And I use these low moments, like even this morning, I cried this morning. I had a whole anxious moment and I stopped and I was like, but you're a human.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

And my mama always used to say, I want you to remember this moment right now so that you can remember how far you've come in six months when you look back. And I use these low moments, like even this morning, I cried this morning. I had a whole anxious moment and I stopped and I was like, but you're a human.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

And my mama always used to say, I want you to remember this moment right now so that you can remember how far you've come in six months when you look back. And I use these low moments, like even this morning, I cried this morning. I had a whole anxious moment and I stopped and I was like, but you're a human.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

You're allowed to do this and you will make decisions moving forward that will support you in the ways that you need.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
“Let Her Kick Rocks!”—How to Turn Rejection into Results (and Dates) with No-B.S. Love Expert Sabrina Zohar

You're allowed to do this and you will make decisions moving forward that will support you in the ways that you need.