Sadhguru

If it gets into a short churn, then you see he seems to have a… he or she seems to have a psychological problem.

See, everything physical is a cycle.

If I drink water, enough water, I have to go to the loo, it is a cycle.

If I work this much, then I have to go into sleep, that is a cycle.

I am born and I will die, that's a cycle.

Everything physical is cyclical.

But if you are not identified with your physicality, you yourself need not become cyclical.

Because human intelligence has broken free from instinctive existence, that means our cerebral flower bloomed in whatever number of years and now if we want, we can expand without being cyclical.

This is the privilege of being human being.

When you don't exercise that, you will become mentally ill.

When I say mentally ill, not only people come to you for treatment or those people unfortunately who are in the asylums and stuff,

which is the most unfortunate place to be in the world.

And not just that, most human beings are cyclical in their thought and emotion.

But they manage because their cycles are reasonably large.

They do crazy things, but it's okay, people around them also equally crazy, so they adjust and go on, they look normal.

See, it is maladjustment that you're calling as illness.

I'm calling illness as if you get into a compulsive state, if you do not exercise the privilege of being human, that itself is a sickness.

If you don't look at it that way, at some point everybody will be ill in a way that you can't stand them.

No, they all believe that people suffer in marriage.

Now they've decided to suffer without that institution of marriage.