Sadhguru

So this suffering is not about anything else.

One thing about this new culture that we have created is there is no emotional security.

Nobody trusts anybody.

There was a time you come from India, all the movies they were singing songs, Janam Janam, that means lifetime after lifetime we will love each other.

But now they're talking about when they're signing, what are these agreements?

Prenuptial.

Prenuptial agreements.

And when they date, they already know that, you know, the expiry date for that date.

Because you're looking at everything in terms of

Gratification, you're not looking at it in terms of engagement, involvement.

You're thinking in terms of, how can I give less and take more?

With this, you will never know joy in your life.

This is not just about dating.

This is about economics.

This is about everything.

When the moment you think, how can I live this life?

By extracting everything that I can extract from you or not offer anything to you, you will move into misery.

Today it may look like a great pleasure because I'm getting what I want from you, but tomorrow it will be something else.

See, gratification is touch and go.

Involvement means in some way to involve, you have to put something of yourself down.