Sal DiStefano
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There's a lot that some of that data is kind of hard to read too. Cause you'll read that you, let's say you lit your, you're in a marriage and you're unhappy and your spouse is not that great. They're not that great. They're not terrible. They're like beating everybody and, and, you know, abusing drugs, but they're just not good.
There's a lot that some of that data is kind of hard to read too. Cause you'll read that you, let's say you lit your, you're in a marriage and you're unhappy and your spouse is not that great. They're not that great. They're not terrible. They're like beating everybody and, and, you know, abusing drugs, but they're just not good.
There's a lot that some of that data is kind of hard to read too. Cause you'll read that you, let's say you lit your, you're in a marriage and you're unhappy and your spouse is not that great. They're not that great. They're not terrible. They're like beating everybody and, and, you know, abusing drugs, but they're just not good.
Um, and you're really unhappy and you'll hear, well, your kids will be better off if you get divorced and you get happy. The data actually doesn't show that. It doesn't support. Data actually shows the worse. Yeah. They're worse off if you're, if they're raised by a single parent. Yes.
Um, and you're really unhappy and you'll hear, well, your kids will be better off if you get divorced and you get happy. The data actually doesn't show that. It doesn't support. Data actually shows the worse. Yeah. They're worse off if you're, if they're raised by a single parent. Yes.
Um, and you're really unhappy and you'll hear, well, your kids will be better off if you get divorced and you get happy. The data actually doesn't show that. It doesn't support. Data actually shows the worse. Yeah. They're worse off if you're, if they're raised by a single parent. Yes.
And now people hate hearing that because, um, because it's, it's, it's against kind of what we want to hear, but the data does, does show that. Or like, um, I divorced his dad and he's such a crappy guy. I want him completely out of their lives versus he's in their lives, but he's, he's not that great. Right. It's actually better that he's in their lives a little bit.
And now people hate hearing that because, um, because it's, it's, it's against kind of what we want to hear, but the data does, does show that. Or like, um, I divorced his dad and he's such a crappy guy. I want him completely out of their lives versus he's in their lives, but he's, he's not that great. Right. It's actually better that he's in their lives a little bit.
And now people hate hearing that because, um, because it's, it's, it's against kind of what we want to hear, but the data does, does show that. Or like, um, I divorced his dad and he's such a crappy guy. I want him completely out of their lives versus he's in their lives, but he's, he's not that great. Right. It's actually better that he's in their lives a little bit.
You know, I would argue differently now. I would argue that, you know, if you look at the way marriage, as we understand it, one man, one woman, where did that come from? What did that originate from, how we understand it? And it came from the Judeo-Christian religion. And they actually have a framework in there of how successful marriage is supposed to work.
You know, I would argue differently now. I would argue that, you know, if you look at the way marriage, as we understand it, one man, one woman, where did that come from? What did that originate from, how we understand it? And it came from the Judeo-Christian religion. And they actually have a framework in there of how successful marriage is supposed to work.
You know, I would argue differently now. I would argue that, you know, if you look at the way marriage, as we understand it, one man, one woman, where did that come from? What did that originate from, how we understand it? And it came from the Judeo-Christian religion. And they actually have a framework in there of how successful marriage is supposed to work.
And if you look at the data on people that follow the framework like thatβ They have very successful marriages. But when you read the framework of how it says you're supposed to be within your marriage, it's the opposite of what you're here. So I could give you an example. What you hear all the time from marriage therapists, accounts, whatever, is you got to get your needs met.
And if you look at the data on people that follow the framework like thatβ They have very successful marriages. But when you read the framework of how it says you're supposed to be within your marriage, it's the opposite of what you're here. So I could give you an example. What you hear all the time from marriage therapists, accounts, whatever, is you got to get your needs met.
And if you look at the data on people that follow the framework like thatβ They have very successful marriages. But when you read the framework of how it says you're supposed to be within your marriage, it's the opposite of what you're here. So I could give you an example. What you hear all the time from marriage therapists, accounts, whatever, is you got to get your needs met.
You need to get your needs, know what your needs are, express them, and your partner needs to meet your needs. It says, it doesn't say that. It says you need to meet your, you need to, the key to successful marriage is you meet their needs, is you got to be other focused.
You need to get your needs, know what your needs are, express them, and your partner needs to meet your needs. It says, it doesn't say that. It says you need to meet your, you need to, the key to successful marriage is you meet their needs, is you got to be other focused.
You need to get your needs, know what your needs are, express them, and your partner needs to meet your needs. It says, it doesn't say that. It says you need to meet your, you need to, the key to successful marriage is you meet their needs, is you got to be other focused.