Sam Irby
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Like I don't have any friends who hate gay people or trans people. I don't have any friends who are like hardcore conservatives. I have a lot of like friends that I think you'd be like, hmm.
what do y'all bond over and then I'll be like well I watch wrestling and then like it explains that friendship right you're like oh you have a very narrow like way of of connecting with this person and sometimes for me that's all it takes is we can have a shared interest in one thing and we don't have to get into other things you know that is so good
what do y'all bond over and then I'll be like well I watch wrestling and then like it explains that friendship right you're like oh you have a very narrow like way of of connecting with this person and sometimes for me that's all it takes is we can have a shared interest in one thing and we don't have to get into other things you know that is so good
what do y'all bond over and then I'll be like well I watch wrestling and then like it explains that friendship right you're like oh you have a very narrow like way of of connecting with this person and sometimes for me that's all it takes is we can have a shared interest in one thing and we don't have to get into other things you know that is so good
Yeah. And this is fun. Me too. I think, so I'm not going to guess, Glennon, why you have your rules, but I am going to, so this is kind of a guess. I'm going to say that I don't need to have, and this is not shade, an intimate like soul relationship with everybody. Right?
Yeah. And this is fun. Me too. I think, so I'm not going to guess, Glennon, why you have your rules, but I am going to, so this is kind of a guess. I'm going to say that I don't need to have, and this is not shade, an intimate like soul relationship with everybody. Right?
Yeah. And this is fun. Me too. I think, so I'm not going to guess, Glennon, why you have your rules, but I am going to, so this is kind of a guess. I'm going to say that I don't need to have, and this is not shade, an intimate like soul relationship with everybody. Right?
Like, I don't need to get to the depths of people if we're just like having a laugh or like we can talk about, you know, this one thing. Sometimes those narrow friendships like branch out and grow, but I don't go into things being like, okay, I'm going to meet this person and I'm going to hang out with them and then I want to know everything about them.
Like, I don't need to get to the depths of people if we're just like having a laugh or like we can talk about, you know, this one thing. Sometimes those narrow friendships like branch out and grow, but I don't go into things being like, okay, I'm going to meet this person and I'm going to hang out with them and then I want to know everything about them.
Like, I don't need to get to the depths of people if we're just like having a laugh or like we can talk about, you know, this one thing. Sometimes those narrow friendships like branch out and grow, but I don't go into things being like, okay, I'm going to meet this person and I'm going to hang out with them and then I want to know everything about them.
Some people you don't, you know, you don't want to know. You don't want them to know everything about you. So I think because I don't look at everyone as like a potential like soul friend because I'm just like, well, this is just my buddy who I do this with. Then it's easier to like let some of that other stuff fall away. I feel like you want to have deep friendships with everyone. Yeah.
Some people you don't, you know, you don't want to know. You don't want them to know everything about you. So I think because I don't look at everyone as like a potential like soul friend because I'm just like, well, this is just my buddy who I do this with. Then it's easier to like let some of that other stuff fall away. I feel like you want to have deep friendships with everyone. Yeah.
Some people you don't, you know, you don't want to know. You don't want them to know everything about you. So I think because I don't look at everyone as like a potential like soul friend because I'm just like, well, this is just my buddy who I do this with. Then it's easier to like let some of that other stuff fall away. I feel like you want to have deep friendships with everyone. Yeah.
It's really something. I respect that because the quality of your friendships is probably really great because you like vet people.
It's really something. I respect that because the quality of your friendships is probably really great because you like vet people.
It's really something. I respect that because the quality of your friendships is probably really great because you like vet people.
Well, so that's the thing is, well, and I think it feels like rude to call someone an acquaintance, but that's essentially the difference, right? It's like, we're friends because I know you inside and out, you know me inside and out. Our acquaintances who were just like, oh, Bob, yeah, he's a good time. We don't need to know Bob's soul.
Well, so that's the thing is, well, and I think it feels like rude to call someone an acquaintance, but that's essentially the difference, right? It's like, we're friends because I know you inside and out, you know me inside and out. Our acquaintances who were just like, oh, Bob, yeah, he's a good time. We don't need to know Bob's soul.
Well, so that's the thing is, well, and I think it feels like rude to call someone an acquaintance, but that's essentially the difference, right? It's like, we're friends because I know you inside and out, you know me inside and out. Our acquaintances who were just like, oh, Bob, yeah, he's a good time. We don't need to know Bob's soul.
And like, but it feels rude to call Bob an acquaintance because that just is like a rude word. So we need like a capital S friend and a lowercase S friend.