Samantha Christine (Sam / SAMCFIT)

I mean, it postpartum doesn't last forever, but like the first six to eight weeks, it's, it's a lot.

So I think.

That's something that the husband can do or boyfriend, just check in and ask what they need.

Even if it's just a talk or a glass of water, whatever it may be.

Cause they're not that useful at the beginning.

Right.

And I think a lot of the times they, they want to be, but they don't know what to do.

They're like, what can I do?

Like, I don't have a boob to milk, like our child, like

to breastfeed, to change a diaper.

Yeah.

It's like you very, you know, so I think that the more in pregnancy you can involve your significant other to where it easily translates over into postpartum is just going to make life a lot more seamless and feel more supportive.

I don't even really know what to expect.

And like the first time around, I feel like that's so, so normal.

You're just winging it.

Yeah.

Like when you have your second, if you guys have a second, if you're planning on that, you're going to be like, I feel so much more empowered.

Yeah.

And just kind of know,

what i would need yeah he's been at every appointment with me which helps and i think him going through ivf too with me we were so like a team yeah such a team i mean he gave me every shot he was with me every night see you guys going through that is a lot yeah big emotional event and chapter so yeah i feel like he's gonna be great postpartum too are you guys doing any like birth classes together or anything like that wait he doesn't know it but we're going to