Sara Jane Ho

And then I would say that, like, for me, I had my best relationships when I was the best version of myself. And listen, all of our issues stem from childhood. And there's no such thing as perfect parenting. Right.

So I think the sooner you can understand your own issues and the emotional damage from your childhood and the sooner you can work on that, whether it's reading self-help books, whether it's listening to podcasts. whether it's getting therapy, which I'm a huge proponent of, and the sooner you can become the best version of yourself, you're like a mirror.

So I think the sooner you can understand your own issues and the emotional damage from your childhood and the sooner you can work on that, whether it's reading self-help books, whether it's listening to podcasts. whether it's getting therapy, which I'm a huge proponent of, and the sooner you can become the best version of yourself, you're like a mirror.

So I think the sooner you can understand your own issues and the emotional damage from your childhood and the sooner you can work on that, whether it's reading self-help books, whether it's listening to podcasts. whether it's getting therapy, which I'm a huge proponent of, and the sooner you can become the best version of yourself, you're like a mirror.

You will attract the best partner that you can attract.

You will attract the best partner that you can attract.

You will attract the best partner that you can attract.

That is really interesting. And I can see that. I can see that we are becoming very coddled. So it's a fine balance and it's a balance that, you know, I think, I think we need to think critically for ourselves, you know, so, so much of his hood mentality and we just jump on and that's cancel culture too, as well. Right. It's like jumping on high behind the screen, no accountability.

That is really interesting. And I can see that. I can see that we are becoming very coddled. So it's a fine balance and it's a balance that, you know, I think, I think we need to think critically for ourselves, you know, so, so much of his hood mentality and we just jump on and that's cancel culture too, as well. Right. It's like jumping on high behind the screen, no accountability.

That is really interesting. And I can see that. I can see that we are becoming very coddled. So it's a fine balance and it's a balance that, you know, I think, I think we need to think critically for ourselves, you know, so, so much of his hood mentality and we just jump on and that's cancel culture too, as well. Right. It's like jumping on high behind the screen, no accountability.

What happened to thinking for yourself and thinking about what's important to you and thinking about what you want to do about it?

What happened to thinking for yourself and thinking about what's important to you and thinking about what you want to do about it?

What happened to thinking for yourself and thinking about what's important to you and thinking about what you want to do about it?

I'm sure my ex-boyfriend is wearing this right now. But well, yeah, who knows? He blocked me. And by the way, obviously you changed his name, right? Or no, you didn't. Oh, obviously. I kept the first letter the same. So any good anecdote, good story where it's a praise, I keep the real name. If it's a negative story, I change the name, but I keep the first letter as the same.

I'm sure my ex-boyfriend is wearing this right now. But well, yeah, who knows? He blocked me. And by the way, obviously you changed his name, right? Or no, you didn't. Oh, obviously. I kept the first letter the same. So any good anecdote, good story where it's a praise, I keep the real name. If it's a negative story, I change the name, but I keep the first letter as the same.

I'm sure my ex-boyfriend is wearing this right now. But well, yeah, who knows? He blocked me. And by the way, obviously you changed his name, right? Or no, you didn't. Oh, obviously. I kept the first letter the same. So any good anecdote, good story where it's a praise, I keep the real name. If it's a negative story, I change the name, but I keep the first letter as the same.

100%.

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I love it. I love that. Okay. So tell us why. Okay. So explain that. And of course, I mean, it was a New York Times style profile that came out in January, 2023. Okay. And when I, of course they take the one thing that I say out of like a 36 hour, you know, of them shadowing me and they make that the headline.