Sarah Jakes Roberts

For sure. Because it's going to take the strength of both of us to maintain the marriage that we want. It can't just be a one sided strength.

For sure. Because it's going to take the strength of both of us to maintain the marriage that we want. It can't just be a one sided strength.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Well, my husband and I have a shared expression of faith. So I think making sure that you have a shared... expression of faith, not even just a shared faith, but what does this expression look like for you? How does it show up in your world? Because everybody who believes in God isn't trying to live a life of light, love and goodness and conviction and humility.

Well, my husband and I have a shared expression of faith. So I think making sure that you have a shared... expression of faith, not even just a shared faith, but what does this expression look like for you? How does it show up in your world? Because everybody who believes in God isn't trying to live a life of light, love and goodness and conviction and humility.

And so making sure you have a shared expression.

And so making sure you have a shared expression.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Right, right.

Right, right.

Exactly. How does how does your faith show up in your actions?

Exactly. How does how does your faith show up in your actions?

And I will say that this isn't a question that you would have a shared answer to. But I think it's a question worth asking the person. And that is, what is the most traumatic experience you've had in your life? And how does the residue of that experience show up in your presence?

And I will say that this isn't a question that you would have a shared answer to. But I think it's a question worth asking the person. And that is, what is the most traumatic experience you've had in your life? And how does the residue of that experience show up in your presence?

Yeah.

Yeah.

What is the most traumatic experience of your life? And how does the residue of that experience show up in your present?

What is the most traumatic experience of your life? And how does the residue of that experience show up in your present?