Sarah Kanowski

And I'd bore them to tears with my anxieties.

And they would say, stop worrying, you're going to ruin it.

And other friends would say to me, it's fine, stop worrying, it's fine.

And I also talked at length to my psychologist about it.

Her conclusion was she wasn't seeing any red flags and

that a man with two children, a difficult ex-wife, lots of different business interests, as he told me he had, farms, that was a complex life and a lot of balls were in the air and it was understandable that things happened in that life.

Jo came into your brother's work one day.

What was he doing?

It was a night he was meant to come to my place for dinner again and he cancelled in the afternoon with a very, very complex story that I won't go into.

And all of a sudden I get a text message from Joe and he says, we're at this restaurant, which is the restaurant my brother works at.

Your brother's looking after us so well.

And my brother had taken them complimentary champagne.

Who was he there with?

Well, he was there.

He told me in the text message he was there with his sister.

What?

No.

I texted my brother in a state of... I was very anxious about it.

And the next morning, I didn't want to disturb my brother while he was still working, but the next morning I texted him and said, who was he there with?

What happened?