Sarah

And before we finished through the legal process, I happened to check that account that had thousands of dollars in it.

And it was all completely gone.

And he had went and spent all of it on hunting equipment and things that he wanted and never talked to me.

And unfortunately, that triggered a very bad insecurity.

I grew up in a very abusive household where my father was very bad with money.

He would beat all of us and kind of use the money to manipulate our situation.

And we had to move a lot and cause a lot of insecurity.

So when that happened, that really...

made things very challenging where I just suddenly didn't trust this person anymore.

Yeah, went through the whole thing.

Yeah, exactly.

Yeah, backstory makes it a little bit easier.

It was during COVID, so it wasn't quite as easy as it usually is to get a marriage license.

Yeah.

We do.

We have one child.

But at the same time, it's kind of this, it feels like this double life because we don't share our finances.

I know you say that you're supposed to, and I want to.

I just, I don't know how to trust this person.

Yes, in different ways.