Sarah

and, like, try to make things better.

But then at the end of the day, I feel like I'm, like, nitpicking and, like, trying to hold this person into me.

Yeah, I guess I don't know, because he's not a good kisser, so...

I'm just like very turned off by those things.

And it's just like every little thing feels awkward.

Well, that's the thing is, you know, we're always told like, Hey, there's no perfect person out there and you are going to have to have like a give and take and a compromise when it comes to somebody.

And,

That's why I want to know from you, is attraction and feeling like that chemistry that pull to lean in versus lean out something to compromise on?

Because he does have all the other things.

The fact that we value the same things.

We live the same sort of lifestyle.

We care about being healthy and active and family people.

And, you know, we are around the same age.

We're both looking for marriage and kids.

And he was so, so there for me on the toughest day of my entire life.

And I think that, like, I know he cares.

I know he has interest.

I know that he puts forth effort and like takes time out of his day to do certain things.

And like, I value all of those things so much.

I just feel myself leaning out versus in.