Sarah

That's cool, but it's just not intertwined with mine at that point. So it's trying to inspire change from within them to say, what do I want? I can either have this, like how we've had it, and it's amazing, or... I can go down this path.

That's cool, but it's just not intertwined with mine at that point. So it's trying to inspire change from within them to say, what do I want? I can either have this, like how we've had it, and it's amazing, or... I can go down this path.

That's cool, but it's just not intertwined with mine at that point. So it's trying to inspire change from within them to say, what do I want? I can either have this, like how we've had it, and it's amazing, or... I can go down this path.

And if you make it clear and straightforward that that's the expectation and that's where the bar is set, then the ball isn't in your court and it's not you policing their life. It's just saying,

And if you make it clear and straightforward that that's the expectation and that's where the bar is set, then the ball isn't in your court and it's not you policing their life. It's just saying,

And if you make it clear and straightforward that that's the expectation and that's where the bar is set, then the ball isn't in your court and it's not you policing their life. It's just saying,

This is where I'm at. And yeah, you have care and you love this person. And there's a lot of complicated feelings and all of that within the relationship. So it's, you know, you're delicate about it, but it's stern.

This is where I'm at. And yeah, you have care and you love this person. And there's a lot of complicated feelings and all of that within the relationship. So it's, you know, you're delicate about it, but it's stern.

This is where I'm at. And yeah, you have care and you love this person. And there's a lot of complicated feelings and all of that within the relationship. So it's, you know, you're delicate about it, but it's stern.

For me... It's always just about, I think the best thing in life you can do is just be so true to yourself and not hide anything to where the people you surround yourself with, the different friend groups, your family, whatever circles you're in.

For me... It's always just about, I think the best thing in life you can do is just be so true to yourself and not hide anything to where the people you surround yourself with, the different friend groups, your family, whatever circles you're in.

For me... It's always just about, I think the best thing in life you can do is just be so true to yourself and not hide anything to where the people you surround yourself with, the different friend groups, your family, whatever circles you're in.

There's nothing you're hiding. There's nothing you're lying about. Because if you have to lie or not be your true self to fit in with a certain group. That's horrible in itself. Then what is that? And what's the point? Yes, it may have had a really positive impact on your life and you may highly value your relationship with all of these people in this group.

There's nothing you're hiding. There's nothing you're lying about. Because if you have to lie or not be your true self to fit in with a certain group. That's horrible in itself. Then what is that? And what's the point? Yes, it may have had a really positive impact on your life and you may highly value your relationship with all of these people in this group.

There's nothing you're hiding. There's nothing you're lying about. Because if you have to lie or not be your true self to fit in with a certain group. That's horrible in itself. Then what is that? And what's the point? Yes, it may have had a really positive impact on your life and you may highly value your relationship with all of these people in this group.

But for me, it just starts to cross the line when you feel you need to hide such an important part of your life and yourself. I'm with you. And so I think it comes down to- you know, it's your choice. What's the most important thing to you and where are they on the hierarchy?

But for me, it just starts to cross the line when you feel you need to hide such an important part of your life and yourself. I'm with you. And so I think it comes down to- you know, it's your choice. What's the most important thing to you and where are they on the hierarchy?

But for me, it just starts to cross the line when you feel you need to hide such an important part of your life and yourself. I'm with you. And so I think it comes down to- you know, it's your choice. What's the most important thing to you and where are they on the hierarchy?

But I will also tell you, the more you try and not disclose this, and I think you end up slipping and the longer it's been, the worse it looks and the worse everyone takes it. I don't know what, how everyone in the group dynamic will react to anything, but, and I also don't think it needs to be a, hey, everyone, I'm calling a meeting because I have an announcement.

But I will also tell you, the more you try and not disclose this, and I think you end up slipping and the longer it's been, the worse it looks and the worse everyone takes it. I don't know what, how everyone in the group dynamic will react to anything, but, and I also don't think it needs to be a, hey, everyone, I'm calling a meeting because I have an announcement.