Sarah

We're both looking for marriage and kids.

And he was so, so there for me on the toughest day of my entire life.

And I think that, like, I know he cares.

I know he has interest.

I know that he puts forth effort and like takes time out of his day to do certain things.

And like, I value all of those things so much.

I just feel myself leaning out versus in.

And I like him more when he's not around versus I try to shut my brain off and just see how we are.

I mean, he asked me like two weeks ago to be his girlfriend and I said yes.

But I mean, it's like I said, it's a very new kind of thing.

I don't see this as like we're not in a serious relationship at this point.

It's the beginning.

I think the only reason I would be feel any sort of way about it was because he asked me to be his girlfriend and there's like those things.

And because he, and I have been exclusive, but other than that, I don't, I mean, I think maybe there's a better person out there for him than me.

okay that sounds kind of like you have your like love him more and like be like if someone's telling me like i want to take pictures with you and post you and i want you to meet my family and stuff like that i would hope that your person you're seeing is excited about those things and like i think he deserves that i mean if natalie would have told me that i mean hell even after we were boyfriend and girlfriend a month in i would have been like a little like anxious about that i'm like okay calm down

Just one more little question.

I do think most people do, like you said, value that chemistry maybe way more than somebody should, but do you think that that's a necessity for relationships?

You know what I was thinking last night as I was watching that.

isn't feeling right and um you found a nice friend you respect him but like he's you know not your guy oh thank you so much i i really think that i i don't think i value chemistry too much i just have realized that it is something i do need is like a a pull towards each other and um

And I think that just goes along with like the things I want as in like compatibility and timeline and all of those things too.