Sarah

I would say another question, like to bounce off of all of this is that I don't think he's like a two, but I also don't think he's like, obviously a 10.

And like, I. So he's a five.

So he's a five.

And that's fine.

And I don't have like, I don't think the looks thing is like the problem for me.

It's more of like when he kisses me, like I, I'm just not into it.

And I don't know if like, that's something that I should like work on with him.

and, like, try to make things better.

But then at the end of the day, I feel like I'm, like, nitpicking and, like, trying to hold this person into me.

Yeah, I guess I don't know, because he's not a good kisser, so...

I'm just like very turned off by those things.

And it's just like every little thing feels awkward.

Well, that's the thing is, you know, we're always told like, Hey, there's no perfect person out there and you are going to have to have like a give and take and a compromise when it comes to somebody.

And,

That's why I want to know from you, is attraction and feeling like that chemistry that pull to lean in versus lean out something to compromise on?

Because he does have all the other things.

The fact that we value the same things.

We live the same sort of lifestyle.

We care about being healthy and active and family people.

And, you know, we are around the same age.