Sari Botton

And also, like, in your interpersonal relationships, be who you truly are.

You know, one of the things that's so hard about being yourself is that it isn't for everyone.

That was a really hard lesson for me to learn.

And I learned it from a phone psychic, by the way.

Yeah.

it's a one 900 phone psychic that I called.

Uh, I was, I was like really unhappy in a relationship, but I was afraid to break up.

Like what if all relationships are bad?

And, you know, um, and I, I would occasionally call phone psychics.

I can't believe like, Oh my God, what I'd ring up on my credit card that I couldn't pay.

But I, this was the last call I made to a phone psychic.

And I'm pretty sure I got Stephen glass, uh,

on the phone.

He got busted later for, he did a piece for Harper's in which he allegedly posed as a phone psychic and then interviewed a lot of phone psychics.

And he later admitted that most of it was fabricated, but that he did answer, he was a phone psychic for a while.

And I am almost 100% sure it was him that I spoke to.

And what he said to me was,

Not everyone is supposed to get you.

And that's really important information.

When somebody doesn't get you, you let them go and you free up space for someone who will get you.