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Scott Barry Kaufman

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1103 total appearances

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Modern Wisdom
#947 - Scott Barry Kaufman - How To Not Let Your Past Define You

I think there's a really great insight there. I do talk about the difference in performance. I call TikTok vulnerability versus authentic vulnerability. I see this kind of TikTok vulnerability on steroids and it does get rewarded. I think that there is genuine sympathy involved there. There are people, you know, it's like there are people who when they see the signal, they

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Modern Wisdom
#947 - Scott Barry Kaufman - How To Not Let Your Past Define You

I think there's a really great insight there. I do talk about the difference in performance. I call TikTok vulnerability versus authentic vulnerability. I see this kind of TikTok vulnerability on steroids and it does get rewarded. I think that there is genuine sympathy involved there. There are people, you know, it's like there are people who when they see the signal, they

1832.328 View full episode β†’
Modern Wisdom
#947 - Scott Barry Kaufman - How To Not Let Your Past Define You

I think there's a really great insight there. I do talk about the difference in performance. I call TikTok vulnerability versus authentic vulnerability. I see this kind of TikTok vulnerability on steroids and it does get rewarded. I think that there is genuine sympathy involved there. There are people, you know, it's like there are people who when they see the signal, they

1832.328 View full episode β†’
Modern Wisdom
#947 - Scott Barry Kaufman - How To Not Let Your Past Define You

they generally want to help. They generally have the empathy and want to help. And so that kind of TikTok vulnerability, they know that they are going to get some reward. It's like when you're a child, you exaggerate a little bit that you're sick because you want to stay home from school and you get rewarded by your mother showing you a lot of care and concern. It does feel good

1857.354 View full episode β†’
Modern Wisdom
#947 - Scott Barry Kaufman - How To Not Let Your Past Define You

they generally want to help. They generally have the empathy and want to help. And so that kind of TikTok vulnerability, they know that they are going to get some reward. It's like when you're a child, you exaggerate a little bit that you're sick because you want to stay home from school and you get rewarded by your mother showing you a lot of care and concern. It does feel good

1857.354 View full episode β†’
Modern Wisdom
#947 - Scott Barry Kaufman - How To Not Let Your Past Define You

they generally want to help. They generally have the empathy and want to help. And so that kind of TikTok vulnerability, they know that they are going to get some reward. It's like when you're a child, you exaggerate a little bit that you're sick because you want to stay home from school and you get rewarded by your mother showing you a lot of care and concern. It does feel good

1857.354 View full episode β†’
Modern Wisdom
#947 - Scott Barry Kaufman - How To Not Let Your Past Define You

to have that attention. It does feel good. You know, like even you, Chris, Mr. No victim mindset, I'm sure if you're not feeling well or whatever, like there might, there, there's a human tendency to want to like broadcast to others that you're not feeling that well, um, to kind of get, um, to get that sympathy.

1880.839 View full episode β†’
Modern Wisdom
#947 - Scott Barry Kaufman - How To Not Let Your Past Define You

to have that attention. It does feel good. You know, like even you, Chris, Mr. No victim mindset, I'm sure if you're not feeling well or whatever, like there might, there, there's a human tendency to want to like broadcast to others that you're not feeling that well, um, to kind of get, um, to get that sympathy.

1880.839 View full episode β†’
Modern Wisdom
#947 - Scott Barry Kaufman - How To Not Let Your Past Define You

to have that attention. It does feel good. You know, like even you, Chris, Mr. No victim mindset, I'm sure if you're not feeling well or whatever, like there might, there, there's a human tendency to want to like broadcast to others that you're not feeling that well, um, to kind of get, um, to get that sympathy.

1880.839 View full episode β†’
Modern Wisdom
#947 - Scott Barry Kaufman - How To Not Let Your Past Define You

Did I address your prior point, though? Because I thought it was a really interesting one. Yeah, I thought it was really interesting. Yeah, so genes. Okay, so G is like a dirty word, right? In a lot of circles. I think people think of genes as something that is immutable, that we can't change, but

1911.221 View full episode β†’
Modern Wisdom
#947 - Scott Barry Kaufman - How To Not Let Your Past Define You

Did I address your prior point, though? Because I thought it was a really interesting one. Yeah, I thought it was really interesting. Yeah, so genes. Okay, so G is like a dirty word, right? In a lot of circles. I think people think of genes as something that is immutable, that we can't change, but

1911.221 View full episode β†’
Modern Wisdom
#947 - Scott Barry Kaufman - How To Not Let Your Past Define You

Did I address your prior point, though? Because I thought it was a really interesting one. Yeah, I thought it was really interesting. Yeah, so genes. Okay, so G is like a dirty word, right? In a lot of circles. I think people think of genes as something that is immutable, that we can't change, but

1911.221 View full episode β†’
Modern Wisdom
#947 - Scott Barry Kaufman - How To Not Let Your Past Define You

I would much rather live in a world where nature and nurture contributed than either living in a genetic deterministic world or an environmentally deterministic world. So I'm actually happy with the way that evolution has given us genes that are highly sensitive to the environment but are not completely determined by the environment. So I like that. So do you want to cover attachment theory?

1933.951 View full episode β†’
Modern Wisdom
#947 - Scott Barry Kaufman - How To Not Let Your Past Define You

I would much rather live in a world where nature and nurture contributed than either living in a genetic deterministic world or an environmentally deterministic world. So I'm actually happy with the way that evolution has given us genes that are highly sensitive to the environment but are not completely determined by the environment. So I like that. So do you want to cover attachment theory?

1933.951 View full episode β†’
Modern Wisdom
#947 - Scott Barry Kaufman - How To Not Let Your Past Define You

I would much rather live in a world where nature and nurture contributed than either living in a genetic deterministic world or an environmentally deterministic world. So I'm actually happy with the way that evolution has given us genes that are highly sensitive to the environment but are not completely determined by the environment. So I like that. So do you want to cover attachment theory?

1933.951 View full episode β†’
Modern Wisdom
#947 - Scott Barry Kaufman - How To Not Let Your Past Define You

Is that it?

1957.806 View full episode β†’
Modern Wisdom
#947 - Scott Barry Kaufman - How To Not Let Your Past Define You

Is that it?

1957.806 View full episode β†’
Modern Wisdom
#947 - Scott Barry Kaufman - How To Not Let Your Past Define You

Is that it?

1957.806 View full episode β†’
Modern Wisdom
#947 - Scott Barry Kaufman - How To Not Let Your Past Define You

Let's dive into attachment theory.

1964.532 View full episode β†’
Modern Wisdom
#947 - Scott Barry Kaufman - How To Not Let Your Past Define You

Let's dive into attachment theory.

1964.532 View full episode β†’