Scott Barry Kaufman
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I think there's a really great insight there. I do talk about the difference in performance. I call TikTok vulnerability versus authentic vulnerability. I see this kind of TikTok vulnerability on steroids and it does get rewarded. I think that there is genuine sympathy involved there. There are people, you know, it's like there are people who when they see the signal, they
I think there's a really great insight there. I do talk about the difference in performance. I call TikTok vulnerability versus authentic vulnerability. I see this kind of TikTok vulnerability on steroids and it does get rewarded. I think that there is genuine sympathy involved there. There are people, you know, it's like there are people who when they see the signal, they
I think there's a really great insight there. I do talk about the difference in performance. I call TikTok vulnerability versus authentic vulnerability. I see this kind of TikTok vulnerability on steroids and it does get rewarded. I think that there is genuine sympathy involved there. There are people, you know, it's like there are people who when they see the signal, they
they generally want to help. They generally have the empathy and want to help. And so that kind of TikTok vulnerability, they know that they are going to get some reward. It's like when you're a child, you exaggerate a little bit that you're sick because you want to stay home from school and you get rewarded by your mother showing you a lot of care and concern. It does feel good
they generally want to help. They generally have the empathy and want to help. And so that kind of TikTok vulnerability, they know that they are going to get some reward. It's like when you're a child, you exaggerate a little bit that you're sick because you want to stay home from school and you get rewarded by your mother showing you a lot of care and concern. It does feel good
they generally want to help. They generally have the empathy and want to help. And so that kind of TikTok vulnerability, they know that they are going to get some reward. It's like when you're a child, you exaggerate a little bit that you're sick because you want to stay home from school and you get rewarded by your mother showing you a lot of care and concern. It does feel good
to have that attention. It does feel good. You know, like even you, Chris, Mr. No victim mindset, I'm sure if you're not feeling well or whatever, like there might, there, there's a human tendency to want to like broadcast to others that you're not feeling that well, um, to kind of get, um, to get that sympathy.
to have that attention. It does feel good. You know, like even you, Chris, Mr. No victim mindset, I'm sure if you're not feeling well or whatever, like there might, there, there's a human tendency to want to like broadcast to others that you're not feeling that well, um, to kind of get, um, to get that sympathy.
to have that attention. It does feel good. You know, like even you, Chris, Mr. No victim mindset, I'm sure if you're not feeling well or whatever, like there might, there, there's a human tendency to want to like broadcast to others that you're not feeling that well, um, to kind of get, um, to get that sympathy.
Did I address your prior point, though? Because I thought it was a really interesting one. Yeah, I thought it was really interesting. Yeah, so genes. Okay, so G is like a dirty word, right? In a lot of circles. I think people think of genes as something that is immutable, that we can't change, but
Did I address your prior point, though? Because I thought it was a really interesting one. Yeah, I thought it was really interesting. Yeah, so genes. Okay, so G is like a dirty word, right? In a lot of circles. I think people think of genes as something that is immutable, that we can't change, but
Did I address your prior point, though? Because I thought it was a really interesting one. Yeah, I thought it was really interesting. Yeah, so genes. Okay, so G is like a dirty word, right? In a lot of circles. I think people think of genes as something that is immutable, that we can't change, but
I would much rather live in a world where nature and nurture contributed than either living in a genetic deterministic world or an environmentally deterministic world. So I'm actually happy with the way that evolution has given us genes that are highly sensitive to the environment but are not completely determined by the environment. So I like that. So do you want to cover attachment theory?
I would much rather live in a world where nature and nurture contributed than either living in a genetic deterministic world or an environmentally deterministic world. So I'm actually happy with the way that evolution has given us genes that are highly sensitive to the environment but are not completely determined by the environment. So I like that. So do you want to cover attachment theory?
I would much rather live in a world where nature and nurture contributed than either living in a genetic deterministic world or an environmentally deterministic world. So I'm actually happy with the way that evolution has given us genes that are highly sensitive to the environment but are not completely determined by the environment. So I like that. So do you want to cover attachment theory?
Is that it?
Is that it?
Is that it?
Let's dive into attachment theory.
Let's dive into attachment theory.