Scott Evans

Correct.

But then when you had a scenario where you came back to your son and said, okay, now listen, we got to talk this thing out.

And you did and came to a better agreement and understanding of one another.

That's modeling the kind of energy, the interaction that you want.

Do you know what I mean?

If your significant other, though, is incapable and unwilling – this isn't a matter of like, oh, I don't know how.

This dude is deciding not to.

It's an avoidant kind of – have you read Attached?

Yeah.

Yeah.

So like this feels to me like I don't want to deal with stuff.

And I also don't want to do stuff.

Yeah.

He probably needs some medicine.

Maybe some medicine.

You know, there's some there's some good stuff out there that will help you regulate some of that until you can address some of those issues and and start to heal.

But certainly, motherfucker, you can make a dinner.

And if you ain't got a job, you can make a dinner five nights a week.

I'm just going to say that.

When y'all get home and it's going to be good.