Scott Shigeoka
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walk the talk of what I was sharing around curiosity. So I spent 12 months going across the country. I went to Trump rallies. I met with religious leaders and I met, I lived in the South. I met people who are very different from my day to day. And it was beautiful to actually see that I could also connect and find commonalities with people who are very different from me.
walk the talk of what I was sharing around curiosity. So I spent 12 months going across the country. I went to Trump rallies. I met with religious leaders and I met, I lived in the South. I met people who are very different from my day to day. And it was beautiful to actually see that I could also connect and find commonalities with people who are very different from me.
walk the talk of what I was sharing around curiosity. So I spent 12 months going across the country. I went to Trump rallies. I met with religious leaders and I met, I lived in the South. I met people who are very different from my day to day. And it was beautiful to actually see that I could also connect and find commonalities with people who are very different from me.
And I can move from a state of reactivity where we're not getting further at all in understanding one another's views and life stories to a place of curiosity. And the last thing I'll say here is that curiosity... inspires curiosity in others oftentimes, not all the time, but oftentimes.
And I can move from a state of reactivity where we're not getting further at all in understanding one another's views and life stories to a place of curiosity. And the last thing I'll say here is that curiosity... inspires curiosity in others oftentimes, not all the time, but oftentimes.
And I can move from a state of reactivity where we're not getting further at all in understanding one another's views and life stories to a place of curiosity. And the last thing I'll say here is that curiosity... inspires curiosity in others oftentimes, not all the time, but oftentimes.
And so what I mean by that is when you are getting curious about someone else and their viewpoints and their perspectives and their life stories, oftentimes they will be inspired to give that curiosity back to you. And researchers sometimes call this like the give and take spiral.
And so what I mean by that is when you are getting curious about someone else and their viewpoints and their perspectives and their life stories, oftentimes they will be inspired to give that curiosity back to you. And researchers sometimes call this like the give and take spiral.
And so what I mean by that is when you are getting curious about someone else and their viewpoints and their perspectives and their life stories, oftentimes they will be inspired to give that curiosity back to you. And researchers sometimes call this like the give and take spiral.
It's when you're in a conversation and you're asking a bunch of questions, they're asking questions to you back and it's like a great meeting, a great date, whatever context you want to put that in. And so I wasn't just learning about the people, that I met on my road trip, but they were learning a lot about me and my life story as well.
It's when you're in a conversation and you're asking a bunch of questions, they're asking questions to you back and it's like a great meeting, a great date, whatever context you want to put that in. And so I wasn't just learning about the people, that I met on my road trip, but they were learning a lot about me and my life story as well.
It's when you're in a conversation and you're asking a bunch of questions, they're asking questions to you back and it's like a great meeting, a great date, whatever context you want to put that in. And so I wasn't just learning about the people, that I met on my road trip, but they were learning a lot about me and my life story as well.
And a lot of people say, Scott, I can't hop in my Toyota Prius and take 12 months off of work and go on the trip that you went through. And I often tell them, you don't have to. We're often in families, let's say, where there's very different perspectives and viewpoints and politics and identities.
And a lot of people say, Scott, I can't hop in my Toyota Prius and take 12 months off of work and go on the trip that you went through. And I often tell them, you don't have to. We're often in families, let's say, where there's very different perspectives and viewpoints and politics and identities.
And a lot of people say, Scott, I can't hop in my Toyota Prius and take 12 months off of work and go on the trip that you went through. And I often tell them, you don't have to. We're often in families, let's say, where there's very different perspectives and viewpoints and politics and identities.
We're often in communities with neighbors who have very different life stories and very different life experiences than us. But oftentimes, not only can we get reactive, but we can also close ourselves off from others. And what I'm trying to express in the work that I'm doing and
We're often in communities with neighbors who have very different life stories and very different life experiences than us. But oftentimes, not only can we get reactive, but we can also close ourselves off from others. And what I'm trying to express in the work that I'm doing and
We're often in communities with neighbors who have very different life stories and very different life experiences than us. But oftentimes, not only can we get reactive, but we can also close ourselves off from others. And what I'm trying to express in the work that I'm doing and
my book Seek is really about how do we move away from reactivity or closing ourselves off to this curiosity, which actually feels really good, right? Curiosity releases dopamine, which is often called the happy hormone. It's something that drives and incentivize behaviors that are really important for us. and our survival and our livelihoods and curiosity is no different.
my book Seek is really about how do we move away from reactivity or closing ourselves off to this curiosity, which actually feels really good, right? Curiosity releases dopamine, which is often called the happy hormone. It's something that drives and incentivize behaviors that are really important for us. and our survival and our livelihoods and curiosity is no different.