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Scott Shigeoka

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Something You Should Know
How You Are Being Psychologically Targeted & The Extraordinary Power of Curiosity

I think what I often have found in my work and traveling all across the country and world is that people are very curious in low stakes moments, but once things get really challenging and really hard, it's much easier to turn off curiosity.

Something You Should Know
How You Are Being Psychologically Targeted & The Extraordinary Power of Curiosity

And so embrace is just a reminder that actually, if you're going through a tough time with your journey around health or a tough time in your relationship with your partner, or a tough time in your own mental health journey. All of these are just examples that I think many people share. That curiosity can actually be a really important companion in all of those pursuits.

Something You Should Know
How You Are Being Psychologically Targeted & The Extraordinary Power of Curiosity

And so embrace is just a reminder that actually, if you're going through a tough time with your journey around health or a tough time in your relationship with your partner, or a tough time in your own mental health journey. All of these are just examples that I think many people share. That curiosity can actually be a really important companion in all of those pursuits.

Something You Should Know
How You Are Being Psychologically Targeted & The Extraordinary Power of Curiosity

And so embrace is just a reminder that actually, if you're going through a tough time with your journey around health or a tough time in your relationship with your partner, or a tough time in your own mental health journey. All of these are just examples that I think many people share. That curiosity can actually be a really important companion in all of those pursuits.

Something You Should Know
How You Are Being Psychologically Targeted & The Extraordinary Power of Curiosity

It's detach, intend, value, embrace. That's the key components of curiosity and

Something You Should Know
How You Are Being Psychologically Targeted & The Extraordinary Power of Curiosity

It's detach, intend, value, embrace. That's the key components of curiosity and

Something You Should Know
How You Are Being Psychologically Targeted & The Extraordinary Power of Curiosity

It's detach, intend, value, embrace. That's the key components of curiosity and

Something You Should Know
How You Are Being Psychologically Targeted & The Extraordinary Power of Curiosity

and to put those into practice in a practical way you start by doing what you just wake up and kind of approach the world differently or i mean what's the what's the how-to here yeah so a couple examples so um one is to remember that curiosity is a spectrum from shallow to deep and so you know shallow curiosity is about getting bits of information about who a person is oh what's your name what do you do for work you know where do you live

Something You Should Know
How You Are Being Psychologically Targeted & The Extraordinary Power of Curiosity

and to put those into practice in a practical way you start by doing what you just wake up and kind of approach the world differently or i mean what's the what's the how-to here yeah so a couple examples so um one is to remember that curiosity is a spectrum from shallow to deep and so you know shallow curiosity is about getting bits of information about who a person is oh what's your name what do you do for work you know where do you live

Something You Should Know
How You Are Being Psychologically Targeted & The Extraordinary Power of Curiosity

and to put those into practice in a practical way you start by doing what you just wake up and kind of approach the world differently or i mean what's the what's the how-to here yeah so a couple examples so um one is to remember that curiosity is a spectrum from shallow to deep and so you know shallow curiosity is about getting bits of information about who a person is oh what's your name what do you do for work you know where do you live

Something You Should Know
How You Are Being Psychologically Targeted & The Extraordinary Power of Curiosity

But we have to take our curiosity deeper to the deep end. What happens with deep curiosity is that we're able to dive beneath the surface, see a person and all of their stories and all of their nuances, and thus the quality of our questions change. So instead of asking a question like, oh, what's your name? Oh, you're oh, Mike. Oh, I'm Scott.

Something You Should Know
How You Are Being Psychologically Targeted & The Extraordinary Power of Curiosity

But we have to take our curiosity deeper to the deep end. What happens with deep curiosity is that we're able to dive beneath the surface, see a person and all of their stories and all of their nuances, and thus the quality of our questions change. So instead of asking a question like, oh, what's your name? Oh, you're oh, Mike. Oh, I'm Scott.

Something You Should Know
How You Are Being Psychologically Targeted & The Extraordinary Power of Curiosity

But we have to take our curiosity deeper to the deep end. What happens with deep curiosity is that we're able to dive beneath the surface, see a person and all of their stories and all of their nuances, and thus the quality of our questions change. So instead of asking a question like, oh, what's your name? Oh, you're oh, Mike. Oh, I'm Scott.

Something You Should Know
How You Are Being Psychologically Targeted & The Extraordinary Power of Curiosity

You might ask a deeper question, a more powerful question like, what is the story of your name? I love that question of what is the story of your name, because it helps you to understand who named you, who named this person that you're talking to, maybe some cultural dimensions or some family legacy connections. I think that's really interesting. Instead of asking, what do you do for work?

Something You Should Know
How You Are Being Psychologically Targeted & The Extraordinary Power of Curiosity

You might ask a deeper question, a more powerful question like, what is the story of your name? I love that question of what is the story of your name, because it helps you to understand who named you, who named this person that you're talking to, maybe some cultural dimensions or some family legacy connections. I think that's really interesting. Instead of asking, what do you do for work?

Something You Should Know
How You Are Being Psychologically Targeted & The Extraordinary Power of Curiosity

You might ask a deeper question, a more powerful question like, what is the story of your name? I love that question of what is the story of your name, because it helps you to understand who named you, who named this person that you're talking to, maybe some cultural dimensions or some family legacy connections. I think that's really interesting. Instead of asking, what do you do for work?

Something You Should Know
How You Are Being Psychologically Targeted & The Extraordinary Power of Curiosity

you can ask a deeper and more powerful question like, what is really exciting you right now? What are you getting curious about in life right now? Instead of asking, where do you live? You might ask, what does home mean to you? What does home look like for you? And you start to just get a deeper understanding for who this person is instead of just data points.

Something You Should Know
How You Are Being Psychologically Targeted & The Extraordinary Power of Curiosity

you can ask a deeper and more powerful question like, what is really exciting you right now? What are you getting curious about in life right now? Instead of asking, where do you live? You might ask, what does home mean to you? What does home look like for you? And you start to just get a deeper understanding for who this person is instead of just data points.

Something You Should Know
How You Are Being Psychologically Targeted & The Extraordinary Power of Curiosity

you can ask a deeper and more powerful question like, what is really exciting you right now? What are you getting curious about in life right now? Instead of asking, where do you live? You might ask, what does home mean to you? What does home look like for you? And you start to just get a deeper understanding for who this person is instead of just data points.

Something You Should Know
How You Are Being Psychologically Targeted & The Extraordinary Power of Curiosity

And so asking deeper and more powerful questions is one tactical way to do that. A second thing to think about is a really simple phrase that you can have in your tool belt, which is tell me more. And this often happens even in my partnership, right? He'll be telling me something about, oh, he's going to this film set to do scouting. And I'm like, oh my God, that's great, babe.