Scott Shigeoka

And so asking deeper and more powerful questions is one tactical way to do that. A second thing to think about is a really simple phrase that you can have in your tool belt, which is tell me more. And this often happens even in my partnership, right? He'll be telling me something about, oh, he's going to this film set to do scouting. And I'm like, oh my God, that's great, babe.

And so asking deeper and more powerful questions is one tactical way to do that. A second thing to think about is a really simple phrase that you can have in your tool belt, which is tell me more. And this often happens even in my partnership, right? He'll be telling me something about, oh, he's going to this film set to do scouting. And I'm like, oh my God, that's great, babe.

I love that for you.

I love that for you.

I love that for you.

instead what when i say tell me more oh my gosh like tell me more about the set tell me more about who you're doing that with tell me more about how you're feeling about that opportunity our conversation and our connection becomes so much stronger so what i mean by tell me more here is to be aware of the times when you're in conversation with anyone in your life and you tend to respond with like oh that's really cool i'm so happy for you rather than you know diving deeper into the conversation and learning more

instead what when i say tell me more oh my gosh like tell me more about the set tell me more about who you're doing that with tell me more about how you're feeling about that opportunity our conversation and our connection becomes so much stronger so what i mean by tell me more here is to be aware of the times when you're in conversation with anyone in your life and you tend to respond with like oh that's really cool i'm so happy for you rather than you know diving deeper into the conversation and learning more

instead what when i say tell me more oh my gosh like tell me more about the set tell me more about who you're doing that with tell me more about how you're feeling about that opportunity our conversation and our connection becomes so much stronger so what i mean by tell me more here is to be aware of the times when you're in conversation with anyone in your life and you tend to respond with like oh that's really cool i'm so happy for you rather than you know diving deeper into the conversation and learning more

and trying to explore all the parts of this person's interests and their lives.

and trying to explore all the parts of this person's interests and their lives.

and trying to explore all the parts of this person's interests and their lives.

Yeah, I think a lot of us really do dislike that. And at the same time, I think a lot of us are so afraid to go deeper. I think we're afraid of, oh, what if we're making someone feel a certain way that they don't want to feel right now? Or what if we're asking something that's too personal? And so one of the practices in SEEK is to develop a powerful questions list.

Yeah, I think a lot of us really do dislike that. And at the same time, I think a lot of us are so afraid to go deeper. I think we're afraid of, oh, what if we're making someone feel a certain way that they don't want to feel right now? Or what if we're asking something that's too personal? And so one of the practices in SEEK is to develop a powerful questions list.

Yeah, I think a lot of us really do dislike that. And at the same time, I think a lot of us are so afraid to go deeper. I think we're afraid of, oh, what if we're making someone feel a certain way that they don't want to feel right now? Or what if we're asking something that's too personal? And so one of the practices in SEEK is to develop a powerful questions list.

So every time you hear a question that you're like, ooh, I like that question, that's so interesting, it was provocative for me, write it down. Put it in your Notes app, in your iPhone, write it in your journal, have a draft in your email, whatever you want to do to catalog it.

So every time you hear a question that you're like, ooh, I like that question, that's so interesting, it was provocative for me, write it down. Put it in your Notes app, in your iPhone, write it in your journal, have a draft in your email, whatever you want to do to catalog it.

So every time you hear a question that you're like, ooh, I like that question, that's so interesting, it was provocative for me, write it down. Put it in your Notes app, in your iPhone, write it in your journal, have a draft in your email, whatever you want to do to catalog it.

And as you start to do this and create a list of powerful questions, you start to realize that the quality of your questions that you're asking in conversations, whether it's at a party or whether it's in a workplace, you know, it starts to improve drastically.

And as you start to do this and create a list of powerful questions, you start to realize that the quality of your questions that you're asking in conversations, whether it's at a party or whether it's in a workplace, you know, it starts to improve drastically.

And as you start to do this and create a list of powerful questions, you start to realize that the quality of your questions that you're asking in conversations, whether it's at a party or whether it's in a workplace, you know, it starts to improve drastically.