Selena Gomez

There's a rule in the family growing up, not a joke.

We didn't know it at the time, but whenever you wanted to speak to your mother or father, I mean, they said, can we, you had a problem.

No matter what they were doing, they stopped.

no matter what they were doing.

They stopped and heard you, listened to you.

And I did the same with my children and they did the same with theirs because it's a matter of them knowing that

They are the most important thing in your life.

If they've got a problem, you're there to listen.

I have seven grandkids, four of them, five of them old enough to talk on the phone.

You know, every day I either text them or call them.

And as a matter of fact, during the campaign, they were having a, I didn't realize they were having an interview on the four oldest grandchildren.

And just at the time when they said they'd call me Pop, Pop calls us every day or texts us every day.

And I called them.

The phone rang.

While they're in the interim.

Well, I give my word.

I had no idea they were in the interim.

But look, I just think being there is important.

And it makes such a difference, I think.

knowing that someone's going to be there for you, just to listen, just to hold you, just to hug you.