Seth Gehle

And she, she just didn't even care. Yeah. Or, you know, she's still with me now. Uh, so, um, Um, but we had our initial, like two years of puppy dog love kind of thing of marriage. Right.

Uh, but, but when I got back from Afghanistan, um, that's when everything started going kind of South in our marriage where, um, I became, I became the abuser that I had dealt with for so many years, the manipulative person that I, that I had dealt with for so many years via my mom or Mondo. Right. I, I was just super, um, manipulative towards my wife for the next, um,

Uh, but, but when I got back from Afghanistan, um, that's when everything started going kind of South in our marriage where, um, I became, I became the abuser that I had dealt with for so many years, the manipulative person that I, that I had dealt with for so many years via my mom or Mondo. Right. I, I was just super, um, manipulative towards my wife for the next, um,

Uh, but, but when I got back from Afghanistan, um, that's when everything started going kind of South in our marriage where, um, I became, I became the abuser that I had dealt with for so many years, the manipulative person that I, that I had dealt with for so many years via my mom or Mondo. Right. I, I was just super, um, manipulative towards my wife for the next, um,

Oh, God, two years or so, two or three years. Just I would come home because once I got out of the army, I would come home from work, wouldn't talk to her for two, three, four days in a row. I mean, I'd come home and just not say a word to her, talk and play with my kids, hang out with my kids. But I just I would just treat my wife like shit. And, um, I tried to divorce her multiple times.

Oh, God, two years or so, two or three years. Just I would come home because once I got out of the army, I would come home from work, wouldn't talk to her for two, three, four days in a row. I mean, I'd come home and just not say a word to her, talk and play with my kids, hang out with my kids. But I just I would just treat my wife like shit. And, um, I tried to divorce her multiple times.

Oh, God, two years or so, two or three years. Just I would come home because once I got out of the army, I would come home from work, wouldn't talk to her for two, three, four days in a row. I mean, I'd come home and just not say a word to her, talk and play with my kids, hang out with my kids. But I just I would just treat my wife like shit. And, um, I tried to divorce her multiple times.

I mean, I literally told her like, I don't want to do this anymore. Like I want a divorce. I want to get out of this. I'm tired of this shit. Um, I couldn't love her. I couldn't touch her. I couldn't hold her hand. Couldn't give her a kiss. Couldn't give her a compliment.

I mean, I literally told her like, I don't want to do this anymore. Like I want a divorce. I want to get out of this. I'm tired of this shit. Um, I couldn't love her. I couldn't touch her. I couldn't hold her hand. Couldn't give her a kiss. Couldn't give her a compliment.

I mean, I literally told her like, I don't want to do this anymore. Like I want a divorce. I want to get out of this. I'm tired of this shit. Um, I couldn't love her. I couldn't touch her. I couldn't hold her hand. Couldn't give her a kiss. Couldn't give her a compliment.

Um, she would get dressed and come out, you know, and staying in front of me, you know, in the way that women do where they're like, Hey, like I got dressed, like it's time to compliment me. And, uh, I knew that's what she was doing. Did she, did she give you the trick question?

Um, she would get dressed and come out, you know, and staying in front of me, you know, in the way that women do where they're like, Hey, like I got dressed, like it's time to compliment me. And, uh, I knew that's what she was doing. Did she, did she give you the trick question?

Um, she would get dressed and come out, you know, and staying in front of me, you know, in the way that women do where they're like, Hey, like I got dressed, like it's time to compliment me. And, uh, I knew that's what she was doing. Did she, did she give you the trick question?

Right. And I would just look at her like, you look good, whatever. I would just give her this like... Get the fuck out of my face, you know? And the reason I did is I knew what she wanted, you know, I knew she wanted to compliment. And so there's like the misery loves company kind of thing. Like it feels good to be like, yeah, now you're on my level.

Right. And I would just look at her like, you look good, whatever. I would just give her this like... Get the fuck out of my face, you know? And the reason I did is I knew what she wanted, you know, I knew she wanted to compliment. And so there's like the misery loves company kind of thing. Like it feels good to be like, yeah, now you're on my level.

Right. And I would just look at her like, you look good, whatever. I would just give her this like... Get the fuck out of my face, you know? And the reason I did is I knew what she wanted, you know, I knew she wanted to compliment. And so there's like the misery loves company kind of thing. Like it feels good to be like, yeah, now you're on my level.

Cause like if I treat you like shit, you're going to be miserable just like me. And now you know what it feels like. You know, I resented my wife because, you know, she's got a mom and a dad. Her dad's a very successful GC in the southeast. She's got brothers and brother and sisters and grandma and grandpa and family and love. And I don't have any of those things, you know.

Cause like if I treat you like shit, you're going to be miserable just like me. And now you know what it feels like. You know, I resented my wife because, you know, she's got a mom and a dad. Her dad's a very successful GC in the southeast. She's got brothers and brother and sisters and grandma and grandpa and family and love. And I don't have any of those things, you know.

Cause like if I treat you like shit, you're going to be miserable just like me. And now you know what it feels like. You know, I resented my wife because, you know, she's got a mom and a dad. Her dad's a very successful GC in the southeast. She's got brothers and brother and sisters and grandma and grandpa and family and love. And I don't have any of those things, you know.

Yeah, exactly. Exactly. And, and, and, and she stayed with me throughout the whole process. Right. So fix my, fix my finances, fix my leadership and the military and just as a, as a man and, uh, and work and stuff in general. Um, and then the personal healing came this year or, well, I guess 2024 about January, 2024. I had a conversation.