Seth Gehle

Yeah, exactly. Exactly. And, and, and, and she stayed with me throughout the whole process. Right. So fix my, fix my finances, fix my leadership and the military and just as a, as a man and, uh, and work and stuff in general. Um, and then the personal healing came this year or, well, I guess 2024 about January, 2024. I had a conversation.

Yeah, exactly. Exactly. And, and, and, and she stayed with me throughout the whole process. Right. So fix my, fix my finances, fix my leadership and the military and just as a, as a man and, uh, and work and stuff in general. Um, and then the personal healing came this year or, well, I guess 2024 about January, 2024. I had a conversation.

It was January, January or February who I had a conversation with a friend, um, And what was important about this now that I think about it is I reached out to him for help versus him just giving me unsolicited advice. Unsolicited advice likely will land you nowhere. Hence the unsolicited. Yeah. Right. But you, but you feel like, man, I got all this, I got all this stuff I want to give you.

It was January, January or February who I had a conversation with a friend, um, And what was important about this now that I think about it is I reached out to him for help versus him just giving me unsolicited advice. Unsolicited advice likely will land you nowhere. Hence the unsolicited. Yeah. Right. But you, but you feel like, man, I got all this, I got all this stuff I want to give you.

It was January, January or February who I had a conversation with a friend, um, And what was important about this now that I think about it is I reached out to him for help versus him just giving me unsolicited advice. Unsolicited advice likely will land you nowhere. Hence the unsolicited. Yeah. Right. But you, but you feel like, man, I got all this, I got all this stuff I want to give you.

People have to be ready to receive. Exactly. And so for me, um, people would give me advice my whole life. Right. And I would just be like, yeah, fuck you. You don't understand. Right. And I finally was like, you know what? I'm just going to ask this guy for some help. And so it was my buddy, his name's George.

People have to be ready to receive. Exactly. And so for me, um, people would give me advice my whole life. Right. And I would just be like, yeah, fuck you. You don't understand. Right. And I finally was like, you know what? I'm just going to ask this guy for some help. And so it was my buddy, his name's George.

People have to be ready to receive. Exactly. And so for me, um, people would give me advice my whole life. Right. And I would just be like, yeah, fuck you. You don't understand. Right. And I finally was like, you know what? I'm just going to ask this guy for some help. And so it was my buddy, his name's George.

And, uh, what happened was I was actually bitching about my wife and I was like, you know, my wife does this and she, she does this and she, she's not like motivated. Cause I'm, I'm like super motivated, like want to whatever, um, crush everything, crush it at work, be the best performer at work, which I, which I was, um, you know, I wanted to just be the best everywhere in life.

And, uh, what happened was I was actually bitching about my wife and I was like, you know, my wife does this and she, she does this and she, she's not like motivated. Cause I'm, I'm like super motivated, like want to whatever, um, crush everything, crush it at work, be the best performer at work, which I, which I was, um, you know, I wanted to just be the best everywhere in life.

And, uh, what happened was I was actually bitching about my wife and I was like, you know, my wife does this and she, she does this and she, she's not like motivated. Cause I'm, I'm like super motivated, like want to whatever, um, crush everything, crush it at work, be the best performer at work, which I, which I was, um, you know, I wanted to just be the best everywhere in life.

And I wanted to wake up at four in the morning and, and work until midnight. Cause that's what you have to do to be successful. You know, um, no, no.

And I wanted to wake up at four in the morning and, and work until midnight. Cause that's what you have to do to be successful. You know, um, no, no.

And I wanted to wake up at four in the morning and, and work until midnight. Cause that's what you have to do to be successful. You know, um, no, no.

I get it.

I get it.

I get it.

Right. And I was fully into that. And I would get mad about my wife not staying up until 11 o'clock to do the laundry. And so I would do the chores. I would do the dishes and the house chores, not for her, but in spite of her, to say like, look, I'm working a full-time job. I work out in the morning. I do jujitsu. And I still have time to do this.

Right. And I was fully into that. And I would get mad about my wife not staying up until 11 o'clock to do the laundry. And so I would do the chores. I would do the dishes and the house chores, not for her, but in spite of her, to say like, look, I'm working a full-time job. I work out in the morning. I do jujitsu. And I still have time to do this.

Right. And I was fully into that. And I would get mad about my wife not staying up until 11 o'clock to do the laundry. And so I would do the chores. I would do the dishes and the house chores, not for her, but in spite of her, to say like, look, I'm working a full-time job. I work out in the morning. I do jujitsu. And I still have time to do this.