Shade Zahrai

And so what curiosity allows you to do is ask what else could be going on for this person.

what other things could have gone on in their life that has led them to respond this way.

And I just happened to be in the wrong place at the right, at the wrong time, or I was the target today.

And it's fantastic because when I'm driving, if someone, I'm big on like letting people in and thanking them.

And I love when people thank me when I let them in.

You should always do it without any desire for return.

But for me, it means a lot when they thank me.

Clearly, clearly.

I probably never will because of that comment.

If they don't thank me or if they cut me off, I have a tendency to jump into, that was so rude, this person.

And I stop myself and I say, no, something's going on.

Maybe they were distracted.

Maybe they have a kid in the back.

Anyone with a screaming kid in the back knows that's challenging.

Same applies when it comes to someone speeding on the streets.

I used to think how reckless and look for a big part of it, probably it is recklessness, but maybe that person is rushing to the hospital because their wife just gave birth, or maybe there's some kind of emergency.

They have to go help their mother.

Who's had a fall.

We don't know.

And so by having that openness, that curiosity, not only about other people, but also even about ourselves, it changes your perspective on everything.