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Shade Zahrai

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The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

It's a signal of approachability.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

And if you are too serious, it might lead people to not trust you.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

There's a level of mistrust.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

I'm not sure about this person.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

Now, I'm not saying like crazy maniac clown smile.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

I'm talking about genuine, natural, approachable smile.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

Someone who is saying, hey, come and talk to me.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

I'm open.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

So that's the next thing.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

Then, so we've got physicality, we've got face.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

The other thing is going to be open palms.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

So if you have your hands in your pocket, it's going to lead people to question your motives, etc.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

Having an open palm is just a really good rule of thumb.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

Then we move to how you speak.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

A lot of the time, even if someone trusts themselves, and this happens to me before I step on any stage, we get nervous.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

We get nervous because our body is priming us for all the things that could go wrong.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

We've got the adrenaline, the cortisol, the...

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

A really simple technique that I use is to tell myself I feel this way because I care.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

I feel this way because I care about the outcome.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

I want to deliver a good presentation.