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Shade Zahrai

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The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

The other group is not given that instruction.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

You then go in and you do these things and then you come back.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

The group that said, I'm excited, ended up feeling less anxiety and performing better.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

That is the power of relabeling an emotion.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

We often just take an emotion as a given, because what's happening is we feel something physiologically, right?

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

So you would feel your heart, what would you feel if you were anxious?

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

Jittery.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

Yeah, maybe a little tense.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

Yeah, maybe increasing heat, body heat.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

So these are physiological sensations.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

Then,

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

Your brain will interpret that because you might have just had four shots of coffee immediately before, in which case your brain would go, oh, this is probably from the coffee.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

But if you're in a situation where you're about to go and sing to an audience, your brain is going to interpret the physiology of what you're feeling.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

The physiology of what you're feeling and go, oh.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

there is such a big risk here of you going out there singing making a fool of yourself getting rejected people will criticize you magnifying these things and so you identify fear this is fear this is anxiety

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

And it's why that similar feeling could be what you get when you're waiting for your favorite band to come on stage.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

The anticipation, the heat, the intensity, the heart rate, the jittery.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

In that environment, it's exciting.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

But the same physiology in a different situation where there's social judgment is considered fear.

The Genius Life
544: The #1 Science-Backed Confidence Hack Nobody Teaches | Shade Zahrai, PhD

Completely, which is fascinating, right?