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Shane Parrish

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
16787 total appearances

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The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

You want to put yourself in a position where you're not predicting what's going to happen in the future, but no matter what happens in the future, you're always going to look right because you just pivot and change with the environment and you're never forced by circumstances into doing something that you don't want to do.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

And I think if you look at all the sort of like greats or titans of decision-making, if you want to call them that, the people who just generally consistently make good decisions are

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

They're never forced by circumstances to do something they don't want to do.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

You have to start where you're at, right?

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

You have to start in the position that you're currently in.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

But if you think about every moment as strengthening or weakening your position, your rate of improvement matters more than where you are in the current moment.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

How do I accelerate my rate of improvement?

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

Stop the decline.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

How do I improve?

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

And for everybody, that's going to be different.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

You might be paying off your credit card bills.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

It might be downsizing your house.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

It might be saving more money.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

All of these different things add to your position.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

And you know which areas of your position you probably feel weakest at because they're the ones you want to avoid talking about.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

They're the ones you probably feel a little bit of shame around.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

Yeah.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

If you're having a hard time visualizing where you might be ill positioned, imagine like a camera crew following you around all day documenting your success.

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

Well, what would you not want them to see?

The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose
Why Your Default Behaviors Are Sabotaging You (And How to Outsmart Them) | Shane Parrish

And that might be a good angle for, oh, how can I improve my position, right?