Shane

It's this one thing.

Comments on this, your feelings are valid, but you kind of cut off your nose to spite your face here. You should have insisted on some photos. Sure, you should not have to ask, but the end result is no photos, and you can't take that back. Someone else said, yeah, it truly sucks to have to outright ask your partner to do something that you are already doing for them.

Comments on this, your feelings are valid, but you kind of cut off your nose to spite your face here. You should have insisted on some photos. Sure, you should not have to ask, but the end result is no photos, and you can't take that back. Someone else said, yeah, it truly sucks to have to outright ask your partner to do something that you are already doing for them.

But I've discussed this with my therapist before and for things like this, sometimes the only way to actually get what you want is to be direct. If it was me, I'd stop my SO during the party, hand him my phone and directly tell him to take some photos of me and my child together.

But I've discussed this with my therapist before and for things like this, sometimes the only way to actually get what you want is to be direct. If it was me, I'd stop my SO during the party, hand him my phone and directly tell him to take some photos of me and my child together.

I totally get OP's frustration, but it's better she be direct and ask than miss out on any more photos with her child because her husband doesn't take the initiative. Someone else said this absolutely sucks and your husband needs to be better. I will suggest taking screenshots from the video of you and your daughter and printing them out. A lot of times videos actually look better photo wise.

I totally get OP's frustration, but it's better she be direct and ask than miss out on any more photos with her child because her husband doesn't take the initiative. Someone else said this absolutely sucks and your husband needs to be better. I will suggest taking screenshots from the video of you and your daughter and printing them out. A lot of times videos actually look better photo wise.

I hope your husband starts respecting you more. OP said thank you. I'll try to do that later. Hopefully the quality is good enough for me to get a couple of pictures.

I hope your husband starts respecting you more. OP said thank you. I'll try to do that later. Hopefully the quality is good enough for me to get a couple of pictures.

I think grandma got on there and commented.

I think grandma got on there and commented.

It was in point five, too. There's the element, too, of the possible jealousy of the daughter really seem to be a daddy's girl and liking to spend time with the dad. I just feel like, I understand... I forgot about the theme too.

It was in point five, too. There's the element, too, of the possible jealousy of the daughter really seem to be a daddy's girl and liking to spend time with the dad. I just feel like, I understand... I forgot about the theme too.

There's also probably jealousy there. Yeah, yeah. But I mean, well, what she's also is jealous of just, there's all these photos and I'm not in the photos. But I understand what she wants and I've done it before where it's like, yeah, you screw yourself over in the hopes that, it's like, well, they're going to learn their lesson eventually.

There's also probably jealousy there. Yeah, yeah. But I mean, well, what she's also is jealous of just, there's all these photos and I'm not in the photos. But I understand what she wants and I've done it before where it's like, yeah, you screw yourself over in the hopes that, it's like, well, they're going to learn their lesson eventually.

They're going to go, oh man, we don't have any photos of you. I'm like, yeah. Because you never took them. Right. And now you learned your lesson. It's like, cool, well, you're not in any photos in the process of this, too.

They're going to go, oh man, we don't have any photos of you. I'm like, yeah. Because you never took them. Right. And now you learned your lesson. It's like, cool, well, you're not in any photos in the process of this, too.

Right. Yeah. Update. You know, Ja. I don't think he does it on purpose or doesn't do it out of spite. He's probably having too much fun with our daughter and forgets. And I shouldn't have let it get to me too much. I still think I shouldn't have to ask, but we clearly have different views when it comes to special occasions. He wants to live in the moment and I want to preserve the moments.

Right. Yeah. Update. You know, Ja. I don't think he does it on purpose or doesn't do it out of spite. He's probably having too much fun with our daughter and forgets. And I shouldn't have let it get to me too much. I still think I shouldn't have to ask, but we clearly have different views when it comes to special occasions. He wants to live in the moment and I want to preserve the moments.

With that said, please know that I don't constantly have a camera in my hand. I just use my phone to snap pictures every so often. I put the phone down so I can enjoy my daughter's parties and family gatherings too. I just wanted him to do the same for me on occasion. Viele haben gesagt, dass sie nur Selfies von mir und ihr machen, und das mache ich. Ich nehme viele von ihnen.