Shane

Sie sagt, das ist das eine, was ich ihm tun wollte.

Ich denke, wie sie darüber geht, ist nicht der richtige Weg. Es ist so, okay, hol die Fotos. Du willst diese Fotos, hol sie. Wenn du es selbst tun musst, musst du es selbst tun. Und dann nach dem Faktum, sag ihm, es schmerzt mich wirklich, wenn du Fotos nicht machst. Kommuniziere das.

Ich denke, wie sie darüber geht, ist nicht der richtige Weg. Es ist so, okay, hol die Fotos. Du willst diese Fotos, hol sie. Wenn du es selbst tun musst, musst du es selbst tun. Und dann nach dem Faktum, sag ihm, es schmerzt mich wirklich, wenn du Fotos nicht machst. Kommuniziere das.

Die Art, wie sie das geschrieben hat, die Art, wie sie darüber spricht, macht mich wundern, wie sie das kommuniziert. Ist es kommunizieren... And I mean, you do have to be very straightforward with people. Depending on the person. But you have to go and go, hey, it would mean so much to me if you take photos of me without me asking.

Die Art, wie sie das geschrieben hat, die Art, wie sie darüber spricht, macht mich wundern, wie sie das kommuniziert. Ist es kommunizieren... And I mean, you do have to be very straightforward with people. Depending on the person. But you have to go and go, hey, it would mean so much to me if you take photos of me without me asking.

It hurts me when you don't take photos because it makes me feel invisible and makes me feel like you're not thinking about me. Instead of It could be delivered as, wow, it really sucks. I guess I don't have any photos of myself this year again.

It hurts me when you don't take photos because it makes me feel invisible and makes me feel like you're not thinking about me. Instead of It could be delivered as, wow, it really sucks. I guess I don't have any photos of myself this year again.

Because some people just do not pick up on things. Because she might say that and he goes, oh, that sucks. I'll make sure next year I get some photos.

Because some people just do not pick up on things. Because she might say that and he goes, oh, that sucks. I'll make sure next year I get some photos.

Next year rolls around, he's just at the trampoline place not thinking. He's jumping on trampolines. Fotos. Ich will Fotos. Ja.

Next year rolls around, he's just at the trampoline place not thinking. He's jumping on trampolines. Fotos. Ich will Fotos. Ja.

She has those. But, you know, he's staying up all night. She says he stays up all night sometimes to see me.

She has those. But, you know, he's staying up all night. She says he stays up all night sometimes to see me.

And it's like, so quality time might matter to him. And like I said, she's not writing this like, I hate my husband, he sucks.

And it's like, so quality time might matter to him. And like I said, she's not writing this like, I hate my husband, he sucks.

It's this one thing.

It's this one thing.

Comments on this, your feelings are valid, but you kind of cut off your nose to spite your face here. You should have insisted on some photos. Sure, you should not have to ask, but the end result is no photos, and you can't take that back. Someone else said, yeah, it truly sucks to have to outright ask your partner to do something that you are already doing for them.

Comments on this, your feelings are valid, but you kind of cut off your nose to spite your face here. You should have insisted on some photos. Sure, you should not have to ask, but the end result is no photos, and you can't take that back. Someone else said, yeah, it truly sucks to have to outright ask your partner to do something that you are already doing for them.

But I've discussed this with my therapist before and for things like this, sometimes the only way to actually get what you want is to be direct. If it was me, I'd stop my SO during the party, hand him my phone and directly tell him to take some photos of me and my child together.