Shawn Ryan

Oof, all right, all right.

Let's move on to, let's move on to, so we have a huge military first responder audience.

A lot of these guys are silent professionals.

And so why is it- Thank you for your service.

Thank you.

Why do men perform, how do I say this?

High performance men, the silent professionals, the military types, the stoicism, the stoic types.

Why is it that they are good at performing everywhere else except the bedroom?

I think, me personally, I think toxic masculinity is a facade.

I think it is fake masculinity.

It is, how do I say this?

To me, toxic masculinity means somebody that is not comfortable enough

and their own skin to be a man.

And so they over-embellish what they think masculinity is, which they think it's, I don't know.

I mean, I don't, I think... Dominant?

Yeah, dominant.

Just over-embellishing everything.

You know, over-embellishment of how much they like violence, how much they like how long their fucking beard is.

They constantly want to throw their weight around everywhere.

Boston people, I think that's all Boston people around.