Shawn Ryan

I believe that no structure beginning with the family works without leadership.

And so I think a lot about what is leadership, and leadership is sacrifice.

And so the more you've been given, the deeper your responsibility to sacrifice for others.

I really believe that.

And that's obvious when you're working hard toward a goal.

You know, I'm putting everything into what I'm striving to achieve.

You know, I'm fighting my way up.

The problem for men, and so few men actually achieve this that it's almost never talked about.

The problem for men is getting what you want.

The problem is winning.

That's what destroys you.

The fight doesn't, I mean, you've been in real fights, obviously.

With real fights, I happen to know.

Not just with others, but with yourself.

And you prevailed.

That's way easier than winning.

Winning is what destroys you.

David was not intimidated when he picked up the stone against Goliath and then ran up and beheaded him.

The problem set in when he sees this girl and he's like, I can bang her.

I'm king.