Shayne Topp

Sorry, sorry.

I've said this before, but the thing that frustrates me, and I see it in our comments, is like, I don't have a problem if I say something and go, oh, I disagree with what Shane said there.

I go, yeah.

Even in rewatching it, maybe disagree with what I said.

What frustrates me is when they go, Shane said this, and therefore, he must be a really bad friend, or Shane clearly is this type of person.

I'm like...

wow, whoa, person I don't know and have never seen.

That's where I'm like, let's be careful there.

And to be clear as well, if...

like him talking to his partner and he goes oh this guy got cheated on and she lied and tried to hide the cheating like and she goes I don't think that's a problem I'd be like that is a red flag yeah 100% I'm not saying she is in the clear here I'm like what she displayed was a red flag also we're just ignoring we're just observing all the aspects of the story he was like I might have been an asshole for going are you a cheater but it's like that's kind of where the conversation was going and she was actively antagonizing him in that moment I think he was permitted to ask that question yeah

It was more the tone there at the end that I was observing.

Like, everything that actually happened, I don't necessarily have a problem with of him being like, oh, like, I think cheating is wrong.

And she goes, oh, I don't think cheating is wrong.

He goes, are you a cheater?

And she goes, what if I am?

I'd be like...

All right, like that's a conversation.

And for me, it's like not about if you're a bad person.

It's like, do you have trust for this person now?

If you don't have trust, then the relationship doesn't work.