Shayne Topp

We gave each other quite personal Christmas presents, like it actually made me tear up, it meant so much to me, and she bought stuff for Bea.

Reasons why she might not like me.

All the reasons above, but that she's just doing them because she's a fucking great person and we're friends.

Okay.

Alright.

Alright, lady.

It might sound dumb, but I don't know.

I need your help, guys.

She is just the most incredible person I've ever met, and I really, really like her.

But if she isn't gay or doesn't feel the same, I don't want to lose her friendship as she has become such a huge part of my life.

I genuinely have no experience with these kinds of things as I went to quite a strict all-girls school, so it's not as if there were any relationships around me as a teen, and then I went to a very small university, eight of us on my course."

Wow.

Yeah, golf course university.

I guess another reason is that I've struggled with anxiety and depression for the past 10 years, as well as my weight and working on my self-confidence.

But I can say that right now I am the happiest and healthiest, both mentally and physically, I have ever been.

I've only just really become comfortable with the fact that I'm gay, and I've never really told anyone in real life.

But I don't think people would be too surprised."

I don't have any close friends, as no one stuck around when I was really struggling with my mental health a few years ago, so I can't discuss this with anyone in real life.

So I need your advice.

How do I find out if she's gay?