Shayne Topp

But I can say that right now I am the happiest and healthiest, both mentally and physically, I have ever been.

I've only just really become comfortable with the fact that I'm gay, and I've never really told anyone in real life.

But I don't think people would be too surprised."

I don't have any close friends, as no one stuck around when I was really struggling with my mental health a few years ago, so I can't discuss this with anyone in real life.

So I need your advice.

How do I find out if she's gay?

And no, I don't have the confidence to just ask.

What if she says no and I ruin everything?

She has never mentioned anything about past relationships, and I'm pretty tactless, so not sure how I could naturally slip it into the convo.

Like,

Hey, tell me, have you ever had a girlfriend?

Do you want one now?

LOL.

And how can I make a move without really making a move so I don't ruin things?

That's the worst position to be in.

There's this layer.

So she's never actually came out to anyone in real life.

So that's tough.

Also like, okay, so a lot of comments that I see are just, I'll see a lot of things that are like, Chance always takes the devil's advocate side, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

No, hold on now.