Shayne Topp

Someone said, the defensiveness is the real issue.

If this happened to me and I showed it to my husband, he'd be having quite a laugh.

And unless you were like some kind of super religious prude who thought these were like the devil's toys or something, I think most people would react that way.

Opie said, I'm no prude.

I'm no food.

Someone said, you're not overreacting.

You're a cheating moron of a husband.

Ordered adult items for him and his girlfriend and auto-filled his own address.

Mail them to her and say, these were delivered to mine and my husband's home and see what happens after that.

OP said, I like your thought.

Maybe I take it to her work and give it to her.

I am considering sending her an email.

Due to her field, the info is public.

I'm pissed at him for his choices.

I don't know what she knows or what he told her.

I don't want to ruin her life, but I want to know how long it's been going on.

Yeah, to be clear.

Don't show up to a workplace.

Yeah, don't put this on her.

That is an HR issue.