Shekhar Natarajan

How do you genuinely connect?

with people generally generally okay it's again about it's again about a bigger space that i try to make in my heart and invite everything invite yeah welcome everything is very hard

but one point can be to for me it works to try to see what what is the problem what is the obstacle to connection why i think i'm con i want to be different from this guy or this is my sensation why i want to push it away

Where is the obstacle?

So I try to work on the obstacle that make people, people, emotion, everything away.

And I try to dismantle them, to disrupt them and to welcome.

So that's the point.

Love is the answer.

So that's a beautiful point about like lying.

The question obviously is

you could be the connector but people have to also connect with you on the wire no generally yeah so like you know you may welcome you may accept but like what if you like the other person doesn't accept or the other person wants to divide how do you deal with that their issue i do my i do my part they have to do their part but i think if they feel

welcome it, maybe something changes, maybe not.

But it's not about expecting something from someone else.

That's a problem.

Of course, if you expect something from you, for sure my expectation is different from your being because I have to accept your being, not my idea of your being.

So I do my work.

I try to be open.

I don't often succeed, but I try.

At that point, I try to.

If other people don't want it, it's their issue.