Shelly Lefkoe
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
I can see you be an autocratic manager.
And I can see the consequences of that.
A belief is a statement about reality that you hold as the truth.
That's what a belief is, right?
It's not wishy-washy.
It's not sometimes or maybe.
A belief is, this is the truth.
And most of our beliefs are unconscious.
And here's why 15 years of therapy and all the personal growth work and all the spiritual work doesn't usually, usually get rid of beliefs.
Okay?
So I'll give you a metaphor.
Let's assume you have an employee who doesn't listen to you.
And you tell him to do something and he doesn't listen to you.
And you turn around and say to me, see, I told you he doesn't care what I want.
And it is as if you could see he doesn't care what I want or he doesn't respect me.
And it's like you can see that.
Like, can't you see he doesn't respect me?
You cannot see he doesn't respect me.
But you can see he or she not doing what you ask them to do.
Okay?