Shi Heng Yi
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
It sounds very philosophical.
But space and time means, if we're in an argument, a big one,
I want space first of all, so that means I have distance to observe, that is the space.
And I want time, because time lets me think more clearly if I'm not under pressure.
If you have someone that you really don't like, then vice versa, you also know exactly what to do then.
If he's a friend, he or she is a friend, you always give room and time.
If you want to make enemies, you steal room and space.
You don't let them move and you don't give them time to react.
This is how you treat enemies.
Wow.
You pressure them.
You pressure them.
You lock them in.
You confine them.
Yeah.
Because this is what it is.
Wow.
What arises out of that situation if you put people under pressure is something that is overwhelming them.
And overwhelming means your emotions are not under pressure.
That's your own control, which makes you vulnerable.