Shi Heng Yi

And then now in the third step, now comes the investigation.

This is where you ask the questions.

So that means where you try to find out more.

You want to become familiar.

You want to take that feeling into your family.

Make him become part of you and make him become friend of you.

Understanding it is a part of you.

But maybe it's just a misunderstanding of the way how you saw it before.

This is like the investigation of asking questions.

Yeah.

Finding out more about it.

Where does it come from?

Who implemented it into your way of seeing the world?

And ultimately, the last step after this type of process is what we call non-identification.

Now, non-identification is quite similar to what I tried to express before that you sometimes need to stand above you.

and see from that perspective how can you support yourself, how can you support that person to get into the next development stage, for example.

This is one type of non-identification, but at the same time also means

Nothing stays as it is.

Nothing stays as it is.

Just as sometimes things are so overwhelming entering into your life, it can happen the other way around as well.